So, I've been seeing this guy casually for about a month (weekend dates, phone calls during the week). He's a really sweet guy, I mean unbelievably so. The thing is, it's been a month, and we kiss and cuddle (nothing more, but still that ought to be enough), and I just don't feel that spark of attraction. I mean he's good looking, and I don't mind kissing him, but I don't really WANT to either. This has never happened to me before, and he's such a nice guy that I want it to work out, (plus it's been a long time since I've been in any kind of a relationship at all. )but I really feel that there's not much of a "connection" there. Although I'm not sure that feeling is mutual. Has anyone ever been in a relationship like this? Did it work out in the end? I mean, do you think that "spark" will develop over time, or should I just find a way to break this off before things go too far?
It is not sound to end a relationship just because there is no spark. Because sooner or later "sparks" will disappear and the only thing that is going to matter will be his sweetness.
And yes, there is a possibility of sparks developing over time. So stick to your relationship, until you have a "logical" reason to break up.