I work at a restaurant while going to high school in my senior year and I met this guy that's a year older than me and works there as well. We talk a lot. I feel there's some connection and flirting; he seems to be interested in what I have to say. We both want to work for the Government. Him in the Marines, me in the FBI. I find that admirable. And we are both moving to the same state this summer. He's going to boot camp-and I'm going to college. He said, "Maybe we'll run into each other?. " I'm interested in him-but I also work with his sister, AND his other brother. I just don't know: One, whether or not he's interested in me or not, Two, whether I should try to date a guy at work, and Three, what if me asking him out not only ruins our friendship-but my job as well? I'm not asking for a complete dating guide-just a little advice that's all. Thanks, it would be greatly appreciated
Yes, ask him out, but keep it low-key and friendly (like maybe casually suggesting that you go out together after work, just the two of you, for a cup of coffee, or an ice cream). I'd use the next month or two to try to get to know this guy a little better (and vice versa). You really don't want to get into a relationship while you are still working at the same place as this guy, and his sister, and his brother (whew!). Summer will be here before you know it, and you'll both be moving to the same state. At that point, assuming that you know each other better, you can start a relationship if that's what both of you want. And you'll be far away from this guy's relatives, and without the complication of working in the same place. Good luck!
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