Ok so I've liked this guy since 7th grade (I'm in 9th now) and he asked me out online. I mean how retarded! I didn't like him then but felt bad so I said yes then later that day I told him my mom said I wasn't allowed to have a boyfriend. I felt really bad so like the next week I told him the truth and we decided to be friends but he like always told me that he liked me more than friends so what ever. Then he started liking this girl Jaclyn and then I liked him. I never told him and he asked Jaclyn out. They went out until like the middle of 8th then she dumped him but he still liked her and I still liked him but I never told anyone. So my best friend tells me that she liked him so I had to back off to be a good friend but then he told me online that he liked me so I told my friend who thought I was just making it up (as you can probably guess we aren't friends anymore) but I just moved on and I told her that I liked this other guy Chris to prove I wouldn't make that up. So Dan the guy I've been talking about asked me out once and I told him we should just be friends. My friend was still mad at me so she told the guy I liked that I liked him and then he started acting all strange around me so I told him that I didn't. Dan asked me out again but I told him I was being a good friend. I told him to let her get over him for like a month so I month passed and he asked me out again, but I don't know he had just been acting like a pervert who just wanted to get in my pants so I said no. Then he asked Jaclyn out again and they are still going out now but I told him I liked him and asked him if he thought I should hang on or move on and he said I don't know I never thought about any other options. So I'm still hanging in there and I don't know what to do! I mean he's hot and sweet, but a bit indecisive and perverted. Thanks to anyone who will read this entire thing and help me! Xox Julie
Umm so from what I can made out of this giant block of text that looks more like an elongated sentence is this.
He asked you out - you didn't like him - he asks someone else out - you start to like him. The above example is actually quite common, happens to me all the time.
However if he's repeatedly asking you out and you have feelings from him why are you hesitating. It doesn't really get any easier than that as he's giving himself to you on a silver platter. Usually people who like each other never get together because everyone's too shy to make the first move, however this guy is repeatedly putting himself out there for you.
As for him being perverted, not much I can say to that. Guys do go out with you because they are attracted to you. Any guy since the 6th grade is gonna start having sexual fantasies, and that's ok. After all, they're still just fantasies.
Let me put it this way, he hasn't seen you with your clothes off, so you can assume he's attracted to you from a normal perspective. That probably made the whole thing seem a lot more awkward than it really is but just think about it.
He sounds like a bit of a player to me. You know the whole 'silent but deadly'.
Get over the guy. I didn't quite understand the story but it seems like he's just going round in a circle asking out the same girls again and again one after the other in the hope he'll find someone he can call his girlfriend.
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