Guys what would happen? (girls could answer)

Well personally I think you both should quit playing emotional head games with each other. Either your in it for the long haul or your not.

If I went back to a girl, it would not be for payback. I know only a few guys that would every try something as low as that. It would take a major commitment emotionally for something that brutal. I don't see it happening, it sounds like a "Soap Opera Fantasy"

However.
It would be at the back of my mind that she had dumped me in the past. I know that if were one of my ex's that I chose to get back with, that I, at least, would be willing to work out whatever problem caused us to split earlier. It would be at the back of my head, but I don't think it would be a source of vengeance, just something that needs working on.

Now. IF I was leading her on for some masochistic and corrupt reason, I would definitely worry about falling for her, it would be my chief concern, especially if I loved her in the past, and she broke up with me, which you present as a situation.

Hope this helps, give us guys some credit. Most of us are too sex crazed to come up with something as cruel as leading a girl on a like this, jeez

I don't know I have never had anyone do that to me. Sorry.

Don't lead her on for payback. Trust me karma will get her. And you are right. Maybe you would be the dope in the end and wind up really falling for her. Too messy. If you guys got back together like nothing happened and you aren't cool with it then confront her. Tell her that you aren't cool with it and get in her head about the situation.