How can I get their attention?

I have a boyfriend that is 34. I am 25, but I couldn't tell you anything you probably don't already know. Women like to see a man that is successful. If you date girls that are college graduates, then they more than likely will like older men. This is because they are looking for a man that is successful, and trustworthy. Like homer said though, be up front with your age and be ready for rejection just in case.

Emphasize your achievements, experience, worldliness, stability, high income, maturity, and so on. You do have these to offer right? Otherwise, there's not much reason for a 25 year old to prefer you...some 25 year olds really still want a "daddy" anyways, so work that angle if you must.

Most girls in their 20s haven't traveled but want to. Take her to Paris on spring break, rather than Lake Havasu. They don't know that a red wine like a Brandisi goes with white meat so impress her. They'll think its cool that you can buy her emeralds on valentines day, rather than miss it because you were stuck in jail with your frat brothers for drunk driving. And so on.

Do keep an open mind that she's 25 and might not be ready to act 40 yet. Or even if she does now, she'll likely feel like she's missing out when she's 29 or 39 and not feeling quite so "at her peak." So, don't force her into middle age any more than force yourself into being 25 again. Rather, if she wants to go clubbing, indulge her if you must. Don't deny her her 20's...or maybe that's where you like to be anyways (because that's the age girl you like) so no issues here. (but most guys in their 40s do outgrow that scene at some point)

And be confident, not apologetic for whatever you are. Hot young girls tend to go with any age guy that can command her attention and the respect of the room.

Be honest about everything.
They will enjoy the fact that you are so much more mature...
But I know a lot of girls off top, are going to be like, you're too old, but you have to be prepared to hear that, because most girls around that age don't truly know what they want.
Good Luck!


Sincerly,
A Loving Black Man

You can show them that you are interested by just talking. You have to be ready for rejection, as most girls would see that out of norm to hang out when the age difference is that high. But if you try hard enough, I am sure you will get one's attention. You can try it online also since people are more open to different ideas when they are online. Be honest upfront about your age though.