I've never actually asked a girl out before. The 2 girlfriends I've had, my friends set me up with. But the girl I want to go out with, my friends don't know I like her. And I want to keep it on the down-low. Please help.
Find the right time and place to ask her out. Optimally, you would ask her in a face-to-face setting. However, if that is not possible, either because the opportunity won't present itself or because you aren't confident enough, your best alternative would be over the phone. Avoid, at all costs, asking through email or any other written medium (Instant Messenger, a note, etc. ). Not only do these methods scream "CHICKEN! " they also show the careless-ness in doing so.
Just be confident and whether she says no or yes that is up to her. Your only job is to ask her out like a normal confident guy and face the answer like a man (hopefully she says yes) If she DOES say no (which I'm sure she wouldnt), don't get angry or disheartened. Just make sure you stay calm and collected.
In all essence, before you want to invite her out, you need to let her know you first. Talk to her or communicate with her and she can feel you out if you have any bad intentions on her or not.
If you don't want your friends to know then go up to her while they aren't around. Just start a conversation. You never know. One thing could lead to another. Good luck dude.
Harkening back to my old high school days, my memory of approaching girls alone saw them in abstract fear of being alone with me. Maybe it's because I was never anyone's type. But best way is to approach them in the open if a girl is alone. - 6 months ago
. Strike up a fun casual conversation with her. Talk about your interests and what you like to do for fun. Say for instance she says she like indoor rock climbing and you have never done it. Go with something like "Oh really? That's cool. I've never done it b4. Maybe we can go together sometime. " Or if you find you like the same type of food. Find a restaurant you don't think she's been to and invite her out. Say "I know you said that you really liked sushi and there's this cool new place about 20 minutes away. Wanna check it out with me? " Keep it a little bit casual that way neither of you feels pressure. Then once you guys get comfortable with each other let her know you like spending time with her and ask her to be your girlfriend.
Let me know how it goes and if you need any additional advice or have questions.
You can like play hang man or like play 20 questions or hold her hang and be like would you like to be my girlfriend or would you want to go out with me
If you wish to ask girls out, you must answer the following question:
Are you handsome, hot guy? If you said no, then the way to ask a girl out is. DON'T.
If yes, then you must be at least '5,10' or taller, athletic or at least not fat, financially well, popular and part of the dominant race in the town/area. If you said no to any of these, it will be difficult at best. Race may not be a big deal in your area so this could be factored out. But you MUST BE TALL AND GREAT LOOKING if you want the girls to accept you.
My goal was to show you realism, not to crush your poor soul. Just be prepared for rejection. I wish the best for you.
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