As a woman, we discuss guys that we have hooked up with and like in very vivid detail with our friends and I was wondering if men do the same. One of my male friends said that only an immature guy under 21 would do that if he wasn't interested in the girl and another guy friend said he discusses women he likes all the time with his friends. Is there a difference as you get older? I like a guy who is 30 and I'm 23. I've never dated anyone over the age of 25 so I was just wondering if guys do and if so, does it have to do with age/maturity? Thanks!
The only things I discuss with my male friends about girls is whether we hooked up or want to hook up. Normally someone will mention some name while we are talking and someone else will say something along the lines of "did you get with that? " Its a short one word answer and we continue with what we were talking about before.
What if you liked the girl that you hooked up with? Would you tell them that you liked her or not say anything? - 3 months ago
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I might say that I'll see her again or that I am dating her. That is the most that would come out of our mouths except for jokes and stuff. We normally don't talk about our girlfriends unless its in a story we are sharing or someone else brings it up. Heck, my friends didn't know about my last girlfriend until I showed up at a party with her a couple months later. - 3 months ago
Well, discuss in what manner? Sexual graphic details of the encounter? Or details of what you're doing to chase the girl? The only time we go into details of a sexual encounter is when something 'abnormal' happened; for example, girl gave the best bj ever, or girl squirted like a porn star on the bed, or we did it in public-----maybe then we discuss details but even then, is more like the general account, not the minute by minute play; now, if any of my friends likes a girl, maybe they will say that there is a girl that they like, and maybe they will say what plans they have to try to talk to her, or general comments in that area, but again, is never a play by play of what the guy plans to say. I must say though that a lot of the details are discussed if a break up happens. Then that's when I hear most guys give detail about the relationship. And is true, when I was younger and inexperienced, I wanted to hear details from my friends so that I could get tips from them; as you get more experienced, there is no need for that, so I think that's why now we just give a general statement, and unless something 'weird' happened, we don't go into much details.
Is there a way for a girl to tell if a guy is talking about her to his friends? His friends act pretty normal around me so I'm not too sure if he has said anything good or bad regarding me? Thanks! - 3 months ago
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You'll never be able to tell unless, they can read minds of course. Think of yourself; you tell your friends. Will that guy ever find out what you said thru your friends? Most likely not; and if he did, I'm sure you'll never tell that friend details again. - 3 months ago
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That's true. Thanks! :-) - 3 months ago
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