Is it really that hard to find a decent guy?

There are plenty of decent guys but most young guys in high school are just horny and superficial.

Finding the right person is never easy. For some reason there is the urgency to have sex in high school that I never understood. There will always be guys who will pressure you to have sex. The right guy won't. You have plenty of time to find a decent guy. I know you want one now but when you're looking for a decent one you gotta pick through a couple bad ones. There are some out there and you'll find one eventually.

Honestly that is all guys think about when they are teens. And it is natural.! Guys are thinking serious at 16 teen. Honey, develop your own interest, hang with your girlfriends and put a lot of effort into your school work. Your young. You have lots of time ahead of you to date. The right guy will come along in the future. Right now you have choices. Pursue your education and start building your life. It will pay off and when you meet prince charming he will admire the ambitious/driven woman that you have become.
Good luck

Omg you sound just like me in high school! ::memory lane trip:: Anyways, there are going to be a lot more guys like that. Most of the time especially when you're still in high school, guys just want to have fun. If they all call you a prude, what they really mean is that you're not putting out. Which is really not an insult, even if though they try to make it one.

There are decent guys out there, you just have to weed through the bad ones.