How can I recover my relationship?

It sounds as if your boyfriend doesn't know what he wants, and you sound pretty unsure as well! I think you should talk about the problem, and see if you can try sort it out. Maybe take a weeks break from each other and then talk again and see if you want to break up or give it another go. Time apart often helps, but make sure you are both clear that there is no AIM/ texts / Calling each other etc so nobody thinks they are being ignored or sends a text! Good luck xx

You have to ask yourself if this relationship is worth continuing. Can you over look his frequent rudeness in the future?

OK you 2 both need time apart. I'd say have a long serious talk with him, and he still is stubborn then tell you need a break to think about the relationship. Even if you guys don't take a break at least set aside 3 days a week where you guys won't see or talk to each other just so it gives you both time to yourselves. People always told me in my past relationships that time away from your boyfriend is good because then you won't get sick of them or argue a lot