So I met this girl about a couple of weeks ago, and I really like her, and I'm pretty sure she knows it. I've hung out with her a couple times on campus, and I went out on a date with her twice. About four days after the last date (Tuesday), I called her to see if she wanted to hang out, but she said she was busy that day with schoolwork. I called her again the next day just to talk, and then I brought up hanging out on Friday. She said she had already made plans with her other friends to go out on Friday, but said maybe we could catch dinner on campus tomorrow. I called her on Thursday, but she never picked up and returned my call. I called her again on Friday just to see what she was up to, and to ask her about what happened on Thursday, but she didn't pick up and return my call again. Did I do something wrong? Did I scare her off by calling her too much? I think she was kind of busy this week, but I would still assume she would at least pick up the phone and tell me she's busy. If I did scare her off, do I still have a chance with her?
Dude, stop calling her. You called her EVERY DAY this week! Busy or not, the harsh reality is you probably got a tad annoying. You said that you wished she would at least have picked up the phone to tell you she was busy. But ask yourself, would that really have stopped you from calling her for 2, 3 even 4 days time and left her alone to call you when it is convenient for her?
If you want to have any chance with this girl, do not call her for a few days. Heck, give it a week! If it is convenient for her, she will call you. She already knows you are waiting to hear from her. After that week is up, if she doesn't and you are feeling daring, give her a quick ring, and if you are fortunate enough to get her, keep the conversation simple. Make no demands, just ask her how she is, and let her lead the conversation.
Well maybe at first you did nothing wrong, however now you have simply called her way too much. You have basically put her in a situation where she suddenly has some sort of responsibility to you which you have thrust on her. If you want a chance at all with this chic. Wait a week to make contact and when you do do it on a Monday night. Don't try to make plans just call her and ask her how her week went and if she is doing well. Then leave it at that. You can then call again like a week and a half later and ask her out. If you have any luck and don't call her too soon she might just give you another chance.
Stop calling her. If you call, leave a brief message and if she is interested, she'll call back. You can call back next week if she hasn't called back.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 6 months ago
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