This guy I met through an online, we started talking. a few weeks later, he told me he deleted his profile (i never asked about it, or even make the slightest suggestion)... but he just told me he canceled it. but in fact he didn't... and still actively using it. what was the point of lying about such little thing? if I never asked him to cancel it... I really didn't care. now I just can't trust him, can i??
How well did you know him before the lie? If you only knew him online then you shouldnt have trusted him from the beginning. He could have lied for any number of reasons. But, ya don't trust him now.
My boyfriend of 9 months was on a dating site, I posted this question a few days ago too.
Have you been with him long? In my opinion they aren't that serious about you. And I know, maybe I should take my own advice, but if you like someone, you want them to be as serious with you as you are in them.
The only difference is when I asked my boyfriend to get rid of the site, he did, no questions asked.
Trust is a hard thing to get over, and maybe he had an addiction to the site. But you gotta nip it in the bud
Not that long. I don't really care anymore. that's just really dumb to start lying about things when you are not even asked. who knows what else he would lie about, you know?
well if you've been dating your boyfriend for 9 months then there shouldnt be any problem approaching that subject. good luck. - 4 months ago
No, you can't trust him. The reason he told you he deleted it is because he probably doesn't want you to check up on him, especially if he's messing with other girls. It's actually really stupid, dumb and immature of him because it's so easy for you to realize that he hasn't canceled it at all just by going to it. Never trust a guy you meet online until you meet face to face and actually have gotten the chance to really get to know him. People hide so much behind the comfort of a computer screen. Be wary and be careful.
By the way, don't even mention this to him. Pretend you believe it and if you like him keep getting to know him. If things go well, you meet irl, hit it off and he genuinely likes you, he'll come clean about it. If not, I'm sure there are many guys out there who will be honest with you.
Not all people online are liars, but a good share are. he must have told you something then told you he delete his profile to hide something from you. to get you to not find out the truth - 4 months ago
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Yeah I don't even wanna mention anything. Thank you :) - 4 months ago
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