I met a guy at a party,we spend two days fooling around in his apartment but my friend was there,because he stayed because we had an after party at the guys place.So because of my friend's presence it didn't get too far sexually,ok,lol. Later on the guy called me to ask me if I would come back to his place>I said no,another day,he said he's gotta go but I should call him the next day. I didn't call him because I feel a guy should call a girl.Well it has been 2 days ,he hasn't called and I feel if he was really into me he would have called by now...or maybe he thinks I'm not interested.He also lent me his flip flops because I had blistery feet from high heels,so I assume he will want his flip flops back.That day we hung out I was gonna run to the corner store and get some flip flops but he insisted on giving me his.Can somebody help me,I'm clueless... Thanks
Update: 3 days already no call from h I emailed him on myspace because I was curious to see maybe sum reaction,we'll see,i expect nothin,i also tried to text him but it wouldn't go through,probably busted phone wonder if he wants his shoes back
6 months ago
When you denied him on going back to his place, he felt rejected. To counter that he left the ball in your court by asking you to call him and now he feels that if you didn't call him that you are not interested. You said that a guy should call a girl and he did that but you denied him. so if you are interested in him, I say call him. But if for some reason that makes you uncomfortable, maybe try "accidentally" bumping in to him somewhere and strike up the convo from there.
Return the flip flops at his door maybe with a little note indicating your intentions, if he agrees to him suggest he call.. If he doesn't call, you'll know the truth.
Just because there's sexual chemistry doesn't mean its at a relationship level. Just watch your step because to me he clearly doesn't seem like the shy sensitive type
(Age:25 to 29)
When: 6 months ago
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