I have been seeing this guy for a few months, he is not really my type he doesn't have a job, I don't think he ever has. I own a construction company, he is 26 and I am 27. He says he loves me and wants to marry me , he even gave me a ring. Yet if he comes around its only for a few minutes and then he's off. 6 months together and he doesn't no my birthday. He would rather hang out with these nasty girls who do drugs than be with me. Yesterday he moved in with me. He went to the store at 8 last and still has not come home. I am tired of chasing him. And I have stopped calling him before and started hanging out with other guys and friends but he doesn't care. 3 and a half weeks I did not contact him one time and he still never tried to call me. How can I beat him at his own game or can you tell me what the heck he's really trying do.
Bluntly! He's using you! I don't know of anyone who owns a company or business that is running around chasing a person who has no job, no responsibilities, no priorities, no life, and does drugs. My question for you is: Would you hire this type of worker? My answer would be NO! So, why are you even thinking about having him chase you. Move on to someone else. Unless you are so desperate that you need this guy, you should move on!
Just kick him to the curb if he can't explain himself! I know some people have reasons but he sounds like a bum. If he can't be honest with you then that is not someone you should even consider marriage with. Just ask him if he has a job or goals. If he can't answer that or isn't doing something productive you shouldn't deal with him.
This is totally unacceptable. The way I see it, you have three choices:
(1) Keep putting up with his behavior, and basically be his doormat/sugar mommy (2) Sit him down, explain to him exactly what he's doing to you and how he's making you feel, and tell him to STOP (3) Make him move out of your place, or move out. Essentially kick his ass to the curb
So to be completely honest with you, it was not the wisest thing to let him move in with you. From what you say about his habit of hanging out with drugged-out skanks, he was not the best roommate candidate to begin with. But now you have some options on what to do next. Make him know what kind of person he is, and almost definitely find someone who you'll want to chase after you.
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