Girls, do you feel ok asking a guy out?

Afraid of rejection.

but understand, the worse answer is NO!!. what do you have to loose??

I have no problem with asking a guy out, if I like him enough and I'm sure that he kinda like me too. I know it a nerve wrecking thing to do and the worst answer is no. Now, I know I can move on and trying to find someone who actually like me.

It may be nerves, that's what it is for me, but I always think- the worst he could say is NO! In that case its his loss and I'll move on, but between you and me, its not so bad. If a dude says no its not as if a girl would: they are polite and discreet because you've just complemented their day & added to their ego.

I don't see anything wrong in asking guys out. I think if you like a guy you should go for it. Guys are so used to being rejected that a lot of times they automatically back off. I think it's hard for most girls because we're taught to not be the "aggressor" or some stuff like that but it's 2008! Good luck girl!