So I've been on a few dates with this guy now, we always get on really well and he's stayed over. First few weeks I totally let him come to me and do all the chasing, let him text me and make all the moves but as things have progressed and I feel more comfortable with texting him first etc...
What I want to know is do guys like it when girls are sometimes assertive and suggest meeting up, or suggest things to do? I don't text him all the time, I'm def not needy, I'm quite laid back but if I feel like getting plans made I'll just sort them out so I know what I'm doing... is this right or wrong do you think?
Update: Lol glad I'm not the only one!!!
6 months ago
Confident guys do, they're real catches. I'm not very confident so assertive girls kind of intimidate me. I really like it, but I act like I don't as a defense mechanism. But seriously, if you chase a guy around, so long as he thinks you're awesome you will totally imprint a memory of yourself in his mind.