I met this guy on Valentine's day and we've been talking off and on and we see each other sometimes on the weekends but it's nothing really serious. I really like him and he seems interested in me but sometimes I'm not sure. He says he's not ready for a relationship cause he just got out of one and he has a daughter who is a year old with his ex. He tells me their not together and that he doesn't want to be with anyone right now. I'm not sure about this guy though. Sometimes I think he's a player and sometimes I think he just needs time. When we're together everything is great and we can talk about anything but then he says he'll call and he never does. I recently told him that I wanted a man that was available and that I didn't feel like he was available and that when he did become available than I would be interested then later on that night he text me and said what's up. So I wrote him a letter telling him that I respect what people want and that if wasn't sure what he wanted than that's fine and that we could just be friends. Then he text me and said he wanted to start over, I'm just scared it's going to be the same thing over again. Why do guys say their interested and don't ask you out, why do they say their going to call and don't call. Is this guy a player or is he really just not ready? I don' t want to pressure him into anything and I won't push anything on him I just need advice on how to make things go smoothly and take things slow if his being sincere and if he's playing me than what signs do I need to look for?
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wantingitall
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
He digs you! Or he wouldn't try to start over! He has a kid so him and his ex will always have a connection I am sorry about that I really am! It stinks big time but if you really feel that you like this guy you shouldn't let this stand in the way! Hope it all works out!
shellbear92
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
You might want to avoid him because if he's got an ex with a kid, then he's too busy thinking about what he's gonna do. Just lay low and then ask him what's going on with his life and if he does the same thing again to you then drop him.
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
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