This is a long story but here it goes. this girl that I've liked for a long time and I've been really good friends with(lets call her Jessica) and I used to sort of think that she liked me is 95% likely to go to the prom with one of my best friends (who she's known for far less time than she's know me for). I thought that she liked me and I thought that she would want to go with me so I was waiting for the perfect time to ask her (it was hard because she never mentioned prom before so I had to wait for the tickets to come on sale so I could talk to her about it,etc...) anyway she's probably going with my friend but what REALLY sucks is that she asked him and he doesn't even want to go to prom and I don't think he's interested in her. But the other day I was talking to one of her best friends. As we were talking she mentioned prom and asked who I was going with. I said I didn't know yet. She replied by asking if I asked Jessica yet (because she knows that I like her). I said that she was already going with someone else and explained the whole situation. But the friend insisted that I should ask her to the prom anyway. Do you think that I should ask her, even if she is probably going with someone else and that she might change her mind and want to go with me if she knows for a fact that I have feelings for her?
If her friend advised you to then what have you got to lose? Her friend has her (jessica's) best interested at heart so if she advised you to ask then chances are she's looking out for jessica and knows jessica would like to go with you.
Should I let her know that I like her first or just ask if she wants to go as friends? - 6 months ago
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Ask her to come as your date not as a friend. There's no point playing things down because if she really does like you, you'll blow it. Don't confess your undying love either just be cool! - 6 months ago
Because her best friend is advising you to ask her, you should go for it. Tell her that you like her and ask her if she has a date for prom yet. If she tells you that she already agreed to go with the other guy, ask her to do something else like go see a movie. If her friend is telling you to ask her, jessica might actually like you back.
Should I let her know that I like her first or just ask if she wants to go as friends? - 6 months ago
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Well because you like her, you should tell her because you don't want to go with her as a friend, you want to go with her as your date. Also, she could like you back and if you ask her as a friend, she will give up any hope of ever going out with you and that would be a bad outcome for both of you. - 6 months ago
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