So I met this guy on this guy we hung out one night talked for over a about everything! we seemed to click. he were laughing and teasing each other, we believed in the same things. The night started at 12 midnight cause I had a lot of school work. After the conversation and a movie (included me giving him back rub and that's all!) I left at 3 40 am, soon as I left he texted me thanking me for coming over, the movie and conversation and back rub. the next day in the afternoon he texted me and said have a nice day. I said you too he texted me randomly throughout the entire day until the evening he asked how my day went , You ended up going over there again hanging out. I though I was just going to be there for a bit cause he said he had to go to the gym at 11, but through out the movie he never once said anything. Gave him back rub again but that's all when movie ended he did not get up so we kinda just chilled he finally check phone and I asked him I though he was going to work out he said waiting for friend to text him on that. After a few min I said I should leave, he looked at me then away and didn't move at all to get up,I said I didn't want to over stay my welcome he said I could not do that a few min went by while we played with his kitten and then I said I really should go cause I have to get up early. He got up slowly and walked me to the door and I gave him hug and he then said I hope to see you soon and he wished me good night and I left. I felt bad because too me it seemed that he didn't want me to go and he liked me and I didn't want him to think I was dissing him so I texted him thanks for having me over and next time I choose movie he responded with a laugh and said maybe I said why with a frown and he said he was just teasing me and we said good night. I was expecting him the next day to text me like the day before but he never did. later on that day I emailed him said hope day is good not response at all , night time came texted him and asked how day went no response at all the nest day he did email me and said thank you and he hope my day was going good I emailed back asked how work was not response at all but I know he read it cause I see it in the status as read and he has been on line since then too. He has done a single thing. It been two days so I texted him asked what's up no response whatsoever. I wonder if I got played.
Hmm, I don't see how you got played if all you've done up to this point is watch a few movies and hang out. It sounds like you may be a tad infatuated with him, and because of that, he's not responding to your messages as fast as you'd like. I don't know, it's hard to say without knowing what his schedule is like or what's going on in his life. If there was no sex involved, though, I'm not seeing how you could have been played to this point. Good luck with this going forward.
i think you might be reading too much into this. I think the first night he might have been expecting a little bit more from you. you shouldn't have seen him the next day after seeing him the night before. you should've given him a chance to miss you a bit. now that he knows that you really like him, he doesn't have to work as much. if I were you, don't initiate communication. you've tried to get his attention and he knows that you're thinking about him. try giving it a few days, maybe even a week to see if he'll contact you first. give him time to wonder if you're really interested. I can't believe you gave him a back rub twice! I used to do that to after meeting someone I really liked. but you know what, over the the years I've learned not to lay all my eggs in one basket. you have to let him earn it. give it some time, and get him to come to you. I know it's hard to wait to see if he'll make a move but just be patient. it could be worth the wait. :)
You make a good point,I have never been the one to play games! I do not see the need to make someone miss you, if they like you you do something about it! I am straight to the point no beating around the bush no games no guessing. You do make a very good point I will try but Its just never been a part of me to play hard to get. Its sad that it seems to me its ok for the guys to do work but as soon as a girl starts to show interest they freak out and become uninterested. thank you :) - 4 months ago
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I know exactly what you mean as I used to be the same as you. sometimes being too honest can't be a good thing. in this case, guys like to do the chasing even though some of them say that they don't. I guess it makes them feel good to work for something that they can't easily get. - 4 months ago
So I'm really interested in this girl that I met through my friend, and he says that she's sort of a tease, or more accurately a "hard-to-get" kind of...
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