Can anyone help me figure out guys?

Haha. Well it would have helped to know what type of guy you are interested in, because guys are different XD. Yes there are some common similarities between us, but our personalities vary a lot.

Guys like girls, but all of us have a unique way of showing it, so there is no 100% for sure way to tell a guy is into you. We could be flirting with you because we like you, we could be talking to you because we are bored, and we can also just be chatting to get to know you on a friend-level.

Most guys like sex. I read somewhere that it pops into our minds on avg. every 4-6 seconds (know matter how small the thought is). Yes that seems kind of high, but it turns us on, and we can get pleasure from it very easily. Some guys express their desires to have sex more than others.

As far as masculinity goes, guys like to feel confident and in charge. But the shy ones are usually pessimistic about themselves and their abilities so they are modest.

Guys are jerks sometimes, we don't try to be, but we are very forgetful about things that are important to women and things they worry about.

What specifically did you want to know?

The majority think with our minds first, we rehearse it in our hearts next but then our penis's take over and we end up messing everything up. Some men can speak with just their minds others only know how to speak from their hearts. Those who speak with just their penis's find out about fatherhood before they turn 20, are forced into marriage by their family/ friends and realize before they are 30 what life could have been if they just listened to their hearts or minds.

I think more girls just need to think like guys do-as one of my best guy friends said to me the other night-guys are simple-don't try and analyze anything they do because there is no hidden message!