ok so I really like this guy and I was sure he liked me back. I asked him out and he said "no, I barely know you.". I don't get this because he held eye contact with me for a long time quite a few times and he smiled at me. Was he just leading me on or does he like me but just want to get to know me better before we do anything. Also, do you think it would be too pushy to ask him why he was making eye contact a lot if he didn't like me back? I just want to figure out whether or not he likes me.
look pretty girl the guy is one of people that I know he just like to look at women and giving looks that the girls noticed and know well that the guy likes them I am telling you girl I am one of those guys unfortunately there was in my life too many girls that I look at them and they look ,like they telling me come to speak with us we are ready for you but I never approach why I don t know may be I am 20 and afraid of comittment or because I like a girl from old days that I wait for her before I get involve with another girls so he must be waiting for another and may be he just acting like he is hard and the girls running after him in doesn't so babe don t worry about him and be tough if he doesn't work change him and it is me right I am a boy
I don't understand anything you are saying. are you saying that he likes me even though he is saying he doesn't? will you re word this so I understand what you are saying because if you read ur answer, its really hard to understand. - 4 months ago
i hope you listen to me, here's what you need to do:
Ignore him as much as you can from now on, don't even play the eye contact game with him and you'll see how he'll be there asking you out.
i'm saying that because it makes no since that he makes all this eye contact and smiling for no reason and then blow you off ! He's just playing games . well show him who can play better !
Omg I just asked him y he was leading me on with the eye contact and stuff (before I read this) and he told me that it meant nothing. he said he was just being polite. the problem with what you said is that school is out and were not friends. I don't even have his number. I just don't get how making eye contact for a long time is just "being polite". do you still think he is playing games or should I leave him alone? - 4 months ago
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This is what he said exactly: I don't mean to be mean but I make eye contact with just about everyone its kind of polite and it doesn't mean anything trust me. - 4 months ago
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He's playing games ... don't think about it anymore... but I wish you read that before you spoke to him but anyways you can still play this game and even if the school is out if he likes you he would get your number from somewhere ... you did what you have to do it's his turn now : = ] - 4 months ago
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But if he liked me and I gave him the perfect opportunity to go out with me why would he play games? - 4 months ago
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No body knows how much stupid guys can be sometimes... but still a look with a smile ----> that's not being polite !! lol - 4 months ago
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He only looked with a smile once like 2 or 3 weeks ago and then he just makes eye contact without smiling. I am so confused because some people tell me to just move on and others tell me not to. Should I just leave this whole thing alone and just go for other guys? - 4 months ago
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Yeah if you don't have that super crush on the guy then of course move on cause with this kind of guys you'll always have to do the maths you know what I mean i don't think you would be comfort... if it's easy to move on ... you should : = ] - 4 months ago
The whole point of going out with someone is getting to know them. Because of that my first instinct is that he doesn't actually like you, maybe he smiled because he thought you were checking him out.
I wouldn't call it pushy to ask him, but honestly you shouldn't. You let him know that you're interested and that's enough, leave it up to him ask you out now if he really liked you he'd have no problem with trying to get to know you and asking you out knowing that you're already interested.
Also, don't hold out for him, a lot of girls make this mistake and you may miss out on dating guys who are actually into you. I suggest just acting normal and start looking at other guys. If you are unable to get him out of your head, then ask him if he wants to get to know you, but in that case you should be prepared just in case he says 'no.'
When a girl pushes the issue of why I won't go out with them, I tend to tell the truth. I've told girls straight up that I am not physically attracted to them, this obviously is unsettling but I try to be discreet and tactful and in the end it provides closure to the whole issue. Girls are so self-conscious to begin with that if you tell them you're not attracted to them they start to doubt themselves and think they're unattractive, that's really not the case though.
I just asked him why he was leading me on with the eye contact and he said that it meant nothing. he said he was just being polite. I don't get it. How is making eye contact for I don't know 15 seconds just "being polite". Why would he do that? Doesn't he get that girls think you like them when you hold eye contact for that long? omg its so annoying. - 4 months ago
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This is what he said exactly:i don't mean to be mean but I make eye contact with just about everyone its kind of polite and it doesn't mean anything trust me. - 4 months ago
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Well, there's your answer. Take it in stride, it's better than killing yourself for the next couple of months wondering what it all means when in actuality it means absolutely nothing...building up to something that doesn't exist, only to be let down.
I sympathize though, it's frustrating trying to sort through all the different signals, and dating is a difficult process as it is for most people. Sometimes people's way of showing interest just aren't in sync. Communication aggravation. - 4 months ago
The point of going out with someone is to get to know them! This guy is a knob. It sounds like he was just checking you out and working some flirting game. Save your effort and just ignore him, if he wants to get to know you he'll come back.
I totally agree with you I mean that whole I was just being polite crap is just stupid. I mean staring into someones eyes for like 15 seconds is so not just "being polite". I am just going to do what you said and ignore him. - 4 months ago
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