I can't get past the first date with a lot of girls.

I can't get past first date with guys, perhaps we should compare notes! Just be yourself, be chatting, be interesting, be open to another date if you like someone ask for another date. Nothing lost nothing gained hun. Good luck.

Just be yourself, open up a little but not TOO much, and make sure you pay. Don't tell her any weird habits you have or any nasty/terrible life stories, and you should be ok. And don't try and sleep with her on the first date either!

Oh the old first date of death, yeah we've all been there, next time when you go on a date act like you've known the girl forever, or like she's already your gf, talk to her about different stuff not just hey where you from, what do you blah blah blah, don't make it seem like an interview , don't want to come off as boring, flirt with her make her feel comfortable around you. Try and kiss her at the end of the date and then set up another date with her.