I think the best way to ask a guy out is to show them that I am interested. In doing so, I'd try hanging out with him more and just one day ask him out (ease him into the convo - I'm really good at that lol). I think its best to ask people out is in person or over the phone. Never do it through notes or emails - shows a complete lack of confidence and its a huge turn off.
ask him/her in person first of all. and do it in a nice way not all rushed or anything unless you really are in a rush. be yourself. have confidence and just do it. it all really depends on their personality
In person-if you can't ask me to my face don't ask, I understand being shy but there is a point where if you really want to take them out you have to suck it up and just ask, even over the phone is ok-just really not via text or email/myspace/facebook.
The best way to ask a woman out is not to ask them at all. If a woman is interested in you, they would make it known by being around you, asking you direct questions about yourself and sharing you secrets. The key factor about woman coming onto a guy is if you are tall, stunningly handsome, wealthy, a particular race and fit. If you are not all of these, life will be hell. Women have responded to many posts here about how a man can gain their interest in them. The responses pretty mean that if the woman is not attracted to a man, it's over before it even began. Disbelieve me? Read enough answers for proof, it wont' take long actually.
In addition, asking a woman out risks sexual harassment. Particularly in the workplace or in school. You never know who would do it to you. By the time you would discover her reaction: STRIKE! The snake has bitten. God Help You.
Sorry dude, that is just how it is. I didn't make it out that way, we are just men who can and will suffer the possible consequences. Good luck
Do you really always have to be negative just because some1 isn't the best looking person doesn't mean they can't find some1 to be happy with. It has a lot to do with personality and confidence which you obviously don't have its not all about looks. - 6 months ago
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In all my years, looks is a major part of it. It's how I have been treated. Not just me, my younger cousins and nephews would talk to me, complaining how girls wouldn't date them because the boys don't meet the girls' requirements of tall handsome looks. I never said it's acceptable, just realistic. You say I have no personality and confidence, quite rude but I expect that kind of reaction from people. I do wish all of you young men the best of luck. Now that is politeness - 6 months ago
Its obvious you have no confidence look at your answers to everything I'm sure not every1 on here look like models but they somehow figured it out I know I'm not the best looking guy but I seem to be able to get girls all the time maybe because I'm outgoing maybe because I try to be as confident as possible I don't know but I think its obvious ur methods are not working - 6 months ago
Just straight up, somewhere during a conversation when things are going good and you're making her laugh. I suggest you use the word "girlfriend" in your question and not "going out", but its all personal preference. Just make sure to ooze confidence, and try to be fun. =D
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