like ok I'm 17 and have had 1 boyfriend.and have kissed only 2 guys ever.but not make out.and obviously I'm a virgin.but that's fine with me.but I'm not ugly or nothing.guys have liked me.i just didn't like them.but is it lame that I've never made out with a guy.or that I've had only 1 bf?.like if I weren't a good kisser or whatever.would you like make fun of me.i just want to know.cuz to me its pretty embarrassing
Update: oh and also its sooo embarrassing when like little frikin freshman girls and even middle school kids have had more boyfriends and done all that stuff.it makes me feel like a looossseerrr
6 months ago
I am going to say NO. When I was your age I was literally EXACTLY where you are now. 17. 1 boyfriend. Only kissed 2 guys. Virgin. Not really made out or done anything else. The year after that was TOTALLY different, lol.
I will say that just because you are inexperienced, doesn't mean you aren't good at it. That second guy I kissed, I had to teach him what to do because I was the better kisser of the 2 of us! Lol. A lot of being good at kissing or anything else is paying attention to your partner's response and adapting to what they seem to like and dislike. Learning when to lead and when to follow. And of course not doing obvious things like drooling, kissing too hard, gnashing teeth, etc. Also think back to every experience you HAVE had (no matter how few they may be) and what you liked and didn't like. Use that to help guide you too.
And don't be embarrassed. If you want more experience then I am sure it will come along soon enough.
You're not a loser hun. I didn't have a girlfriend and my first kiss until I was 18. So you are perfectly fine. You don't want to be one of those girls that make out and do a bunch of stuff with every guy. Because people talk crap behind your back. You're perfectly fine. Just be patient, enjoy school, and don't put so much focus on boys. It just leads to heartache if that's all you think about.
Wow Jarett nice answer....so agree, focus more on school, boys at that age do lead to heartache since at that age they really dont know (well) what they want...... - 5 months ago
I'm 26, was so desperate to find out what it means to make-out that I seduced a pregnant woman 3 years younger and I made out with her. I got out of her car went to the restroom and never came back. I met her online through a singles website. I only got to second base with her but seeing how she was pregnant already with another man's baby, I didn't want to stick around and be named the father so I only stuck around to get some pleasure for myself and then ditched her.
No, it's good hun. Don't be in a rush to do things. It's perfectly normal. It means that you're picky and you're not slut. Both of which are very good attributes to have.
You're not a loser at all, people get relationships at different times, don't compare yourself to all those cheap middle school kids. You have the rest of your life to date. I don't think a guy would be turned off by you not being as experienced as some, he might find it quite sweet. Tell him and be open about it all and he should be fine with it :)
Don't feel like a loser! You said yourself that guys have asked you out but you just weren't interested in them. Just means you've got standards, lol. Some girls (especially that young) will go out with pretty much any guy just for the sake of going out with someone or for the experience. You don't want to stoop to that!
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