This guy is amazing, he's my other half, he completley gets me and we have so much fun together. I recently broke up with my boyfriend and he told me he's been waiting forever for that to happen. But now he's in college in northern florida and I'm here in south florida. He's visiting for 3 weeks and he told me he doesn't want to get attached because he doesn't know how committed he could be at college. He's being truthful and he's not the using type. My friend knows him really well and says that he's only saying this because he doesn't want to date me slipup at college if he's drunk at a party and end up hurting me cause he cares about me. I've been in long distance relationships before and have a good-gut feeling this could work if I could just make him see it through my eyes. I have 3 weeks to get him on my level without scaring him. How do I go about this without coming on way too string? help!!
Take it slow and don't make him feel pressured. Guys hate that. Tell him that you care about him and would enjoy having him in your life. Tell him he compliments you. Good luck.
Tell him, give him time, eventually he will only want you around and want to be commited just to you. Tell him the way things are on your level, every single emotion your feeling for him, let it all out. This will confuse him, causing him to spend an enourmous amount of time thinking about you, then thinking about you will become a habit and once the confusing is over he'll find it weird not to have you on his mind 24/7, next thing you know, he is skipping the college parties, whatever they call them, to spend the night in and talk to you on the phone while he lays in bed or on the net while his eating popcorn.
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