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Lose weight. It might sound bad, but it's true. I've lost about 60 pounds and it's amazing the kind of attention you get from guys when you're not fat. Of course there are people who will say "if they won't love me for me, that's not the kind of person I want to be with anyways". True, but you need to be attracted to the person you're dating. Guys wouldn't give me a 2nd look sometimes when I was overweight and weighed like 240 pounds. Now I weigh almost 180 and I look a lot skinnier, and now it seems I can't keep the guys off of me, haha. I have several guys at my work who like me, or think I am cute. So I guess just do what you need to do. If you're happy the way you are, then by all means, do not change. But I wasn't happy being overweight, and if you aren't happy with yourself, other people won't be happy and like you.
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