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Guys Don't Like me. Why?

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1catydid (Age:Under 18)     When: 6 months ago
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I'm nice generous and so caring. Guys won't go out with me because I'm fat. what should I do?

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punchxcore (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
Lose weight. It might sound bad, but it's true. I've lost about 60 pounds and it's amazing the kind of attention you get from guys when you're not fat. Of course there are people who will say "if they won't love me for me, that's not the kind of person I want to be with anyways". True, but you need to be attracted to the person you're dating. Guys wouldn't give me a 2nd look sometimes when I was overweight and weighed like 240 pounds. Now I weigh almost 180 and I look a lot skinnier, and now it seems I can't keep the guys off of me, haha. I have several guys at my work who like me, or think I am cute. So I guess just do what you need to do. If you're happy the way you are, then by all means, do not change. But I wasn't happy being overweight, and if you aren't happy with yourself, other people won't be happy and like you.
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candyjar How did you lose so much weight anyway??tell me the secret! :) - 6 months ago
Answerer Honestly, I ate right and I exercised. I stopped eating mostly carbs. I eat low carb, but I still do eat carbs, but most of my carbs come from meat, salads, veggies, and fruits. I don't really eat bread anymore and I stopped eating any refined foods or foods made with white flour. And I exercise like 4-5 days a week, about 30-45 mins of cardio.

I've gone from 240 pounds to almost 185 pounds in about a year. And I've gone from a size 18 in jeans to a 10. - 6 months ago
candyjar Is it so hard to do? - 6 months ago
Answerer It takes commitment and changing your way of thinking, that's for sure. I won't say it's easy, but it does take some discipline and such. The thing that helped me was realizing that it wasn't a diet, because diets don't work. It's a 'way of eating', so it's how I need to eat for the rest of my life if I want to keep the weight off. - 6 months ago
Question Asker I have stuck to a very strict diet. no cake no ice cream nothing not even on my birthday. the most unhealthy thing I have had in 6 years is a special-k bar. Thanks for the answer its appreciated - 5 months ago

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Well, the obvious answer would be lose weight. The less obvious answer would be to keep looking for someone until you find someone who loves you despite your weight. Though, looking at your profile picture you don't seem overweight.
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go to the gym, and adhere to a strict diet
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Question Asker I have stuck to a very strict deit over the past 6 years. Ithasn't worked but thanks for answering its appreciated - 5 months ago
 

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