I'm a very open Catholic, so I see religious preference in a potential boyfriend a big thing. Would it be a wise choice to ask about religion on the first date?
Well its not a bad idea to ask someone if that really is going to be an issue to you. A lot of people don't have a religious preference and to some it can be a turn off that someone does. I would recommend finding a way to bring up the topic of religion with out seeming like a quiz or a screening. Bring up a story about you being annoyed by a crying baby at church or your phone went off and you freaked. See if he can relate. Be friendly about it because if you get weird about it. it will make you seem close minded and maybe there would be something there. People convert all the time.
ok I live in ireland so were all basically catholic here including myself! but why the hell does it matter what religion they are if you like them that's all that matters! and what do you mean open catholic?
To some people it does matter. There are a lot of plans people have for their own future that can rely on the religious views of their spouse. Differing religions can bring up problems later in life especially when children come into the picture. A lot of devote Christians would choose not marry someone that is Muslim or Jewish. Just because there are core differences that they wouldn't want to try to change. (And I am taking "OPEN" as in being very vocal and proud. ) - 6 months ago
Answerer
Well me personally I believe in god and everyone knows I'm catholic obviously enough! but I really don't think religion matters to me love is more powerful than love! and if god loves us he will want us to be happy with someone regardless of there religious views - 6 months ago
Question Asker
Thanks for putting that better than I could money. That's what I meant, that I am a very vocal Catholic and proud of it. :] - 5 months ago