Why do nice guys finish last?

maybe because the nice guys don't get a chance to show how sweet they are.go out thee and show the girl you like a little bit of ur wild bad boy side.everyone has one.she'll see you are not just only "mr nice guy"
all the best

another point here is what do you define as confident. I've heard so many men say when a half naked girl walks into a pub or club there's a confident girl. this isn't always true my friend told me she dresses really revealing cause she's got no confidence. she said she wished she was like me. I go out in t shirts jeans or whatever. I'm confident enough to not have to show myself all the time. not criticizing any girls that do dress revealing but what I'm saying is. what you see before you isn't always the way. if you seen me out with my friend you would be sure she was the confident 1 yet its me. I'm not in your face confident I'm confident within myself. there's a fine between confidence and arrogance. arrogance is one of the biggest turn offs I've ever seen in a man. you have to get to know girls a bit better then just looking. things aren't always what they seem. when you find the good ones then I'm sure you will find a match.

it depends on the person. the good guys are always the ones with the bitchy girls. I don't like a man that's too confident these are the ones that seem to do most of the cheating. I would much rather a nice guy. but like I said there all taken by the girls that boss em about and wear the trousers. you need to go for girls most like yourself. not total opposites.

bad boys attract bad girls not always but usually. you say the bad boys get all the girls. the bad girls get all the boys. think you need to look for some nice girls instead.

not true a lot of fellas think this but with most of us its not the case! why would we want the bad guy who's going to treat us shit when we can have the nice guy who will treat us good! I personally have never liked bad guys most of them try to hard to be "bad" they just don't impress me at all! nice fellas all the way always has been for me and always will be :D

I am your typica "Mr.Nice Guy" and yes.I have been put into the "Friendzone" by some very attractive girls that I'd met offline and online.I just don't know what do girls want? do they want the caring loving type or the mean brute.I am completely confused.the problem is with these stupid girls who chase after the badass jackasses.not us decent guys.I wan my nice guy brothers to always remain a gentleman.don't change.our good nature to impres anyone.

my friend I use to have the very same problem and people would tell me to stop being such a good guy. now I know that a lot of times the good and honest guy finishes lat, while the bad jerky guy gets the girl. the only problem with that is that sometimes girls just don't realize that they always bitch on about how their boyfriend doesn't care about them and say that how come they have never find a guy who is nice. well if you are just that kind of nice friend and the girl always comes to you for advice, then all you need to do is tell her that all she has to do is look hard. not if you want advice on info. well here is some. be nice to the girl when she is around, and be a guy when with friend guys. and that may just work, but I don't know. I mean that's what I did. I wish you the best though.

Well, it depends on the girl it seems. I was dumped once because she thought I was too soft. Perhaps it's the media that makes them love the 'bad boys'. Just like with lots of us we love the hot chicks, even the stupid ones.

Yea this happened to me when I as younger and didn't know any better, until I said 'f*** this' and changed my attitude I didn't turn into an asshole but I knew how to play the game , girls like guys with confidence here's an example you go to a club and there is ALWAYS some guy standing at a corner or table checking out the girl he wants to talk to but doesn't do anything for the fear of rejection that guy is gonna get nowhere so that's when the guy with confidence sees what he wants and goes for it no matter what, I mean what's the worst she's gonna do turn you down? there is like 50 other girls at this club I could ask so on to the next girl. most nice guys will let a girl walk all over them in some way and when a girl knows that, you are no longer considered a dating option hence where those guys are put the "friend zone"

For the first twenty five years of most girls lives they are very materialistic, though the same can be said for men. There are some men and some women who fit into the "nice guy/girl category" and it takes until the late 20's usually for them to find someone (or college). They matured faster than their peers, causing them to be mature individuals in a lustful age group. So naturally it's going to be hard to find someone if everyone else out there is aiming for the hottest sexiest persons alive.

Dude, it's true. No matter what girls say nice guys always do finish last. Why? Because "bad boys" are assertive and confident, and go for what they want.

Almost all of my "nice guy" friends are put into the friend zone. I see it happen all the time. I say f*** that.

I'm not saying parade around like some kind of raging dick head cocked up on steroids. Just be confident.

Before you EVER go out and talk to anybody let alone a female, you should have some sort of sense of self assuredness and respect. You don't have to be Brad Pitt but you should be confident in your abilities as a man, and a decent human being. If you are unsure about yourself a woman will probably be put off.

Females are like bloodhounds, they can smell bullshit from a mile away. Nothing smells worse on a dude more than desperation.