So this guy I'm seeing, wanted to take me on holiday and told me to get the time off from work at the end of may, more than once. He wasn't sure of the date and said the 26th/27th or 28th May!
So I took my holiday off from work week beginning the 26th May, just in case.
Sunday the 25th May we still hadn't booked anything as he had just got back from NY the night before and said he would deal with it.
I texted him to ask if he wanted to meet up that night, but he said he was going to holland and would come back on thursday 29th?!?!?!
Hello we were meant to be going away that week how can he go to Holland, and I had taken the time off from work. He said he would sort out the holiday when he got back on the Thursday! But I was due to go back to work on the monday!?//?
We spoke as usual right up until weds.everything was fine.he was due back the next day.(29th May)
I called and texted on the 29thMay and nothing! All week.he was definitely back because the ringing tone was back to normal.i called about 4 times and left 1 voice message and texted him 3 time over that weekend and right up until monday when I went back to work!.but nothing from him for a whole week.
He called finally, a week later, but I didn't answering his call, obviously I was fuming and didn't really want to talk to him!
Whats going on with him, what happened?
He hasn't called back since and that was 3 days ago!
By the way.hes young and successful.HELP! We have known each other for 3 years!
Update: Well still nothing.i texted him a couple of days after the missed call.and nothing.that too was 3 days ago!
I'm not making contact now, I definitely think its time to move on especially when I have not done anything wrong!
5 months ago
i'm kind of sorry that you are asking for such an obvious answer. but then you probably might not not know what's going on. I'm sorry but he might not be interested in you.i'm sorry for that, but that would be a way to tell you that he's not the right guy for you. success and looks are not everything you want. because when that is what you want, then the guy would get too confident and want to see other people without you knowing. I'm sorry to let you know such possibility but I hope you can figure stuff out.
well put this in perspective. Young successful male has a lot of options. If one doesn't work, he can almost always hop onto another plan. if one is more difficult than the other, there is probably a nicer easier route waiting for him.
the best way to get what you want from him is pose nearly no restraints on his life style; it will also require a lot of trust on your part of him; trust that he won't do anything to harm you, if you can trust him, then you have no issues. but if you can't, this sort of concern/question you have now, you will continue to have.
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