I feel like I've broken the worst rule you can when it comes to friends, I hooked up with this guy that 2 of my really good friends like, one of them in particular has liked him for ages. The guy didn't like them like that and nothing was going to ever happen and they knew that, and I know I should have said something to the girls because I've had feelings for him for quite awhile now, but I didn't want to say anything because I would never normally do anything about it because my friends mean more to me than anything and I wouldn't want to hurt them. Unfortunately after a while of hiding my feelings and little bit too much alcohol I gave in to my feelings and didn't think at all and hooked up with him. the girls of course were extremely angry at me and I've hurt one of them a lot, I really am sorry I love them so much. They actually forgave me but I don't know if it'll ever be the same.
I'm really caught now because I do have feelings for this guy, but I don't want to wreck my friendship with the girls either, I don't know what to do. The truth is I don't know what or of there is any chance of anything much more happening with this guy, because we still don't know each other that much, so is it even worth it?
I'm just wondering if anyone who's been in this situation has any advice or what would you do?
what weaponzero said. if they are true friends, and if he likes you, they should be happy for you, not pissed off. they might be a bit upset at first, but it will pass if they really are great friends.
If he didn't like your friends then you did nothing wrong. You didn't take anything from them because he wasn't their property. That's like saying the winning lottery money is mine even though I didn't get the winning number and whoever did win it is wrong and stole from me. It's retarded.
I totally agree with you, I wish girls were as simple as boys, but unfortunately they like to stick to the 'unwritten rules'. this is good, but sometimes its just annoying. - 2 months ago
First of all friendship is second to family.Yeah you are right you really did wrong.If you knew your friends liked him and the one friend for a long time why would you do such a hurtful thing.I know if I had a friend who did something like that it would take for ever for me to forgive and I wouldn't be able to tell them who I like for the longest time.If I ever could tell them again.I know they forgave you.You might have feelings for this guy,but you got to think who is more important your friends or the guy who will be by your side when your hurting your friends will.I would say you shouldn't continue things with him UNLESS your friends are fine with it.You should talk to your friends about it.I know it's a hard situation but you got to think who has been there for you more the guy or your friends who has been your support,you say you don't want to hurt them but you did.You want to make things right explain everything tell them you like this new guy.I wish you the best of luck
i haven't been in that situation but my sister says friends come first. me? I probably would say it might never be the same but if you really like this guy go for it its your decision your life, friends can't live it for you. But if I had to choose between friends and guys I would choose friends since you really don't know this guy but like I said its your decision ok? I would go with what you believe in I hope it goes well!
i think if you have genuine feelings for this guy [and you're friends know this] and he wasn't interested in them. they should forgive you and if they don't, then I don't think they're very good friends.if they care about you and him then they should want you two to be happy. regardless if they have a crush or not. be unhappy because I called him? that's insane. though I'm kind of in this situation, though in the angry friend position, [angry mostly because the girl won't make up her mind.wants her ex but made out with the guy I like.but she still wants her ex.] point is, if you like him then see what can happen there, if they really are your friends they'll get over it or if the thing with the guy fails they should be there for you.and if not.are they really friends?
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