Would you ever date a girl who's just one of the guys?

I don't know what you consider to be 'decent'. In my opinion, yes, guys I consider decent would not avoid you just for being like this.

Makeup and heels are stupid and useless. That said, I do kind of like dresses, but I like pants as well.

Reading 'heals' was a turnoff.

I think there are many decent guys out there in the world, whatever it means to be a decent guy. Try Middle eastern men for a change, then I think you'll appreciate the guys here in the states a lot better, regardless of what they look like. Just make sure your meaning of a decent guy isn't the same as. say like, other hot gorgeous women who are the opposite of you and are also looking for the same guy or type of guy you are looking for. LOL. Basically good luck, I'm sure you'll find someone decent.

I'd absolutely date a girl like you. Sound fun and refreshing. Sometimes non-girlie girls make for the best girlfriends.

Sure. All that other stuff is nice on occasion (like when going to a Hollywood club or some photo shoots) but for the most part low maintenance and just having a good time is aces. One of my ex girlfriends wore so much makeup on her face that it would change the color of my shirt collars when she hugged me. What a pain! And hearing "I don't want to do that because it will mess up my nails" gets old fast. There's a lot to be said for going from shower to car in 10 minutes.

Dudette, you are some guys' ideal girl. Not every guy likes a girl in pumps, caked with makeup, hair 3' tall, and goes "tee hee, oh you!" to everything a guy says. Some guys really like it when a girl speaks her mind, is as tough as he is, and as likely to laugh at your jokes as she is to punch ya in the shoulder calling you "douche bag"! :)

You can definitely get a decent guy. :D

Absolutely.
My wife is strong, capable and often wears my clothes. She does make up occasionally but generally doesn't bother. She was always like this and we have been happily married for 15 years. I never wanted an ornament. I wanted someone who was capable, competent and unconstrained by traditional roles.

Absolutely. No question. Some guys like straightforward women. This world is full of preference, there are DEFINITELY guys who have fallen for girls like you, including me. Don't worry about it, or.worry about it but know there are guys out there for you, decent ones. : )

Feel free to ask anything else. hope I helped.

I may wear a dress/skirt once every couple of years. I don't even know how to put on makeup without looking like a clown. And forget me ever doing my hair. I actually met my husband-to-be at an auto parts store when I went to get parts to fix my vehicle myself!

So yes! You can definitely find a decent guy even if you aren't girly!

I'm far from girly, and in one month I will be married!

of course! I know, through my experience, being "one of the guys" helps the guys grow ac costumed to having you around, and can compare their high maintenance annoying girlfriends to you. and most likely at least half of them will end up liking you at one point or another. its good to be one of the guys, it doesn't intimidate them or make them feel nervous, they can be totally comfortable around you, and that's needed in a relationship. and guys like it when girls are themselves, so without makeup and getting all "dolled up" shows them that you are completely real. ((I've been told all of this from guys in my group and stuff. so don't think I'm just making this up)) and don't ever be someone your not to get a guy!