I'm a teen and I'm interested in a guy that I think is in his 20's he's seen me in my uniform so he has to know I'm younger than him but he still checks me out and hard. I'm 15 do you think I shouldn't go after him or do you think I should just do it I mean I think he's a good person.
He's too old for you hun. I know it's really tough to think of it this way, but in all honesty, there is nothing a 15 year old girl can offer a guy in his 20's, except her body. Doesn't matter how cool or sweet or funny you are. If a guy that old likes you, it's because of your body. Plain and simple. And I know most girls like older guys because they're hotter and more mature, but this guy is too old and is only interested in one thing.
Yeah I kinda get that vibe from him I guess I want him because he's older but the way he walks by me so smugly and confident definitely tells me he's not as mature as I'd want him to be but I don't see any guys where I live and all the parties I go to are filled with guys who just want to grind on me where do I go to actually meet a mature cute guy I mean I look older than my age so usually older guys are checking me out and all the guys my age that I see lack the confidence to talk to me - 4 months ago
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That's the problem that I see. Most (NOT ALL) guys fit into 2 categories.. The first type is the cocky jerks, who think they are God's gift to women. They are interested only in themselves, and usually just want to use women for sex. The other type is the shy guy. Usually these guys are a lot nicer, aren't as selfish, and know a little more how to treat girls for the most part. But these guys are too shy to show interest in a girl for fear of rejection. So they never pursue girls. - 4 months ago
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YES OMG EXACTLY but I just can't get the older guy out of my head he irritates the hell out of me when he does that but there is something about the what he licks his lips and smiles at me. I'm so dumb right... but I don't see anyone better than him and I keep thinking about him. I want to just ignore him but there are no other guys brave enough to talk to me not that he does either he just keeps checking me out then walks by me smiling to himself trying to see if I'm looking why do I still like him - 4 months ago
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Well there is something girls like about a guy with lots of confidence. But is there any guys that you like, that you think are nice, that are shy? Well approach them, talk to them, show them interest. You can give him confidence and build him up if he thinks you are interested in him. Then maybe after a while of talking, ask, "so are you going to ask for my number or what?" That way, he knows you like him, but it forces him to ask. That way the ball is still in your court. - 4 months ago
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Yeah that's really good advice but I'm kinda shy myself and I have always been taught to let a guy come to me I guess times have changed and I have to be a little more confident it's really hard because I like older guys they seem so interesting and exciting to me but I guess I'll have to stick with guys at least..close to my age but what do I do about the guy that I like do I tell him I'm not interested I get so..i know it's weird but flirtatious around him bad habit I know but thanks for the advice - 4 months ago
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Yeah I agree. It used to be that guys had more guts to talk to girls and such. But when I was in high school, I was very shy. I wish a girl had come up to me, and given me confidence and was honest and told me that I needed to work to get her, that she liked confident guys, and I needed to be more confident, and kind of guided me into being a better man. Because I have always been a nice. But I was really shy and was afraid of being rejected by girls, so I never asked any out. - 4 months ago
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But as far as the guy now, just don't pay any attention to him. You know what he wants. And you don't want a guy who just wants you for your body. You just have to convince yourself to move on. But if he asks, just tell him you're not interested. But you're not weird. Most guys like younger girls, and most girls like older guys. But just think, if you find a good shy guy, you can kind of train him to be the kind of guy you want :o) Not many girls can say that! - 4 months ago
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Aw that sucks wow like think of all the guys I ignored because they just stared at me I totally didn't pay attention to them but there is this guy I do feel is such a good person and I think he's 18 is that still bad he is actually really sweet but I can't read him he always is just polite to me and smiles when he talks to me I don't know but being with grls all day makes you want a guy and bad and when a cute one comes around you totally lose control I try it thx so much 4 ur hlp now 2 get rid of mr cocky - 4 months ago
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Ha ha that'll be hard he's always tryna get my attention and you really think I can train a guy lol that's interesting thanks for the help I feel so much better you may have just saved me from heartbreak and feeling used thanks a million your amazin at this stuff - 4 months ago
If you have to think about it, there's a good chance the person is probably too old for you. During your high school years, and especially your age you probably want to limit yourself to a 2 year leash preferably in the upward direction. ( a guy 2 years younger than you is going to feel more like babysitting than dating). I would definitely say this guy is too old for you. You just hit high school and he's been in college for roughly two years.
You're right but there is just something about him I go to an all girl's school and I don't know maybe it's because I don't see many hot guys but he just fascinates me and the way he looks at me makes me want him even more I know he's too old for me but I'm just confused - 4 months ago
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Going to an all girls school can make things much more difficult I'm sure, but the age difference is too big right now. When you're 20, a 25 year old seems fine, but this guys at an entirely different stage in his life than you are. It wouldn't be good. Remember how I told you that dating a guy 2 years younger would be like babysitting? Dating this guy would feel the same way to him in many ways. I promise you there will be other guys your age that will have the same effect on you. There is time - 4 months ago
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I guess your right but it's gonna be hard he's always checking me out I'm trying to ignore him but when I do I feel bad about it he is so attractive though, I'll control myself even though I want him bad lol.. I'll ignore him more I think that will give him a hint. - 4 months ago
Avoid this man at all costs! This relationship can not offer either of you any thing. He is too old for you and you too young for him. A man his age should not have any interest in you. If he does, I strongly question his motives or intelligence. Run away quickly . . . .
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