Some guys like dating older girls because they have more experience. I hear that guys don't like dating younger girls because they're more likely to come with drama. But the truth in that is drama can come with anyone any age. What's your opinion?
Well lets see. There is a 10 year difference between my girlfriend and myself, her being 26 and 35 myself. There is a issue with that at times. Me being older and already been there done that. And her only being 26 and still wanting to party and all that. Ok I just realized you were under 18 so how old is this guy? That would help out a lot. But depending on how old he is it could be good and it could be bad.
Um..well lets just use and example: Girl A is four years younger than Guy B. A lot of my friends have issues dating older guys because all they seem to be interested in some booty. What would be the good and the bad? - 5 months ago
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Well the good being he is mature hopefully. Meaning he is responsible and has some money and thinks like an adult which in turn might make you feel good. On the other hand you might not be ready for that age gap and find he will not be interested in some of the things you like to do. Or on the same level mentally - 5 months ago
That also depends on the age of the guy(s) in question. True, everyone is different, and drama can happen at any age. HOWEVER.
Many (but definitely not all) guys in my age bracket (early 20s) go for girls 15-18 because they DON'T have the experience; by this I'm talking about the guy and the girl. Also, it is because the guy just wants to take advantage of the girl and cannot get girls his own age.
Girls like the older guys because they're (supposed to be) more mature and also have more money, a car,. etc etc. Unfortunately, the only older guys that would date these girls (after knowing their age) are actually LESS Mature than boys in your age group.
Now, even OLDER guys (30+). Younger girls generally have LESS drama (except high-school drama) whereas older women (again 30+) may have been divorced and have children as well
And of course there are guys that like older women, but that is for entirely different reasons that have nothing to do with emotional baggage.
TO THE QUESTION: Since my comment thing doesn't work I'm answering you right here. Hope to have it fixed tomorrow. HaHa I know what you're thinking. lol! But I hope you're not thinking that girls start all that stuff you're thinking at 13 lol cause I was talking more like in my case "right now" as being maybe 4 years younger. But before when I was like 17-18, I thought a girl 15 - 16 was pretty cool. lol!
Well I like dating younger girls because they DON'T have all that experience you're thinking of. All that experience you're talking about isn't necessarily good qualities for a girl to have if he's looking for a nice girl. Younger girls are also not in the drinking scene yet and having to worry about having sex all the time to be popular. Those girls can be soo super sweet and fun, and sometimes I can give her good advice to keep her on the right track. I just as soon we make our own drama. lol!
It depends on the woman. Older women may come with baggage, but a lot of younger women are so annoying that it's hard to hold a conversation with them. I have no problem dating women in their late teens and early 20s, in fact I prefer them because they're physically better looking for the most part, but only if their personality is up to par. If they're self-absorbed or worried about what celebrities have going on, I don't have time for that inane bullshit. That's the flip side of the coin where older women have the advantage, generally speaking. They have life experience so they're more keyed into the stuff that matters and I can gel with that a lot better.
Bottom line: I prefer younger women that have a level of maturity I can relate to.
I totally agree - I'm attracted to girls who are younger than me but want them to be mature and not need a baby sitter! (No offense girls!) However, I don't do the under 18 dating game because that's called, "jailbait!" lol - 5 months ago
Actually it isn't nasty at all, women tend to mature a lot faster than men, that whole nurtutring/maternal thing kicks in around age 17-22 for most women yet many guys don't even want to settle down until they're at least 28. note, I said most and many, not all. - 11 days ago
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