It seems extremely impossible for me to find a boyfriend. I have had a few boyfriends, but it was more like a friends with benefits type of thing it felt like. I might not be the hottest chick on earth, but dang.lol. I am always helping others on their relationship and what they should and shouldn't do, my sisters like why don't you have one? Is there certain things a girl needs to do or a certain way she needs to be in order to get one. I feel like all other girls know the "sercret".lol I wanna Know.
Just be yourself, and stick it out. You'll find someone. Go to a place where you can easily find cute boys and talk to them give some your number, just don't be all easy, and you'll get a boyfriend who you'll cherish.
Obviously your waiting for the right guy [I waited for the right girl for 3years] are your friends hooked up and do they mean it with their relationships. Although it hurts sometimes waiting is the only thing you can do to find the perfect one.
Take your time, you're still young and don't really need a boyfriend right now. Have fun. Be yourself. Date guys but don't obsess about what to call it or where it's going, etc. When I was your age I pretty much just dated and didn't worry about having a "boyfriend". I dated plenty of guys that year but only had one real "boyfriend" and that was perfectly fine by me. Every time that I did find a real relationship it was always when I wasn't looking for it, lol. Everytime that I stopped worrying about the labels and the future and was determined just to have fun, that's when it happened. The one I find the funniest was when I was 19. This guy asked me out and I said yes but I was REALLY not looking for a relationship. I felt like I was too young to be tied down and I had just been dumped by a guy a few months earlier. It had gotten a bit ugly and he'd hurt me for one thing, but also I was happy to be "free" for a while. So after about a week of seeing this new guy, I realized that he was really looking for a girlfriend and I wasn't interested in that. I knew if I told him that I wanted to date other people he would go along with it because it was the type of guy he was, but he wouldn't really be happy about it. So I figured it wasn't fair to even ask and broke it off. Couple days later this other guy asked me out. We had talked a bit before and we were both young (he was 18 and still in high school) and not into relationships and tired of people always wanting one from us. So we figured we'd be a good match to go out and neither of us would get too "attached". Yeah here it is 9.5 years later and he's snoring in bed beside me right now, lmao. We're married and got kids now! So much for not wanting a boyfriend huh? Lmao.
There's no one secret. It's just a matter of finding the right guy at the right time. You're still young, I think it'll get easier. When I was 17 I'd never had a boyfriend, but shortly after that I had one and I don't think I've spent more than six months single for any time since.
Actually, Most of the guys are really picky. You need to find a guy who would really accept you for who you are than your own boyfriend making fun of you when your not around.
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