I have tried looking at parks, gym, library, and places like that but no luck :*( Why is it so hard to find a good girl who isn't a party animal? I mean is there a place to meet these type of girls hang out at?
You're looking too hard. you're searching for this girl and you're not going to find her by searching for her exactly, and you're going to miss some potentially really great girls too. what do YOU enjoy doing? If you enjoy painting, join an art class. you'll meet a girl who's into that. you understand what I'm saying? Don't go out searching for this good girl who isn't a party animal, just do what YOU like doing, and you'll meet a girl who has the similar interests :)
You have a very good point. I have been trying to do the things I do, yet I haven't found one. I guess the things that I do and how I am is sooo unique that I my chances of finding that one gal is slim to none. So that's why I'm asking for a place that has girls who are similar to what I'm looking for so I can actually increase my chances a bit. - 3 months ago
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Hmm.. okay so now you have me wondering.. what are some of your interests? What do you do for fun? ;) - 3 months ago
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As I have written below, I enjoy exploration, outdoor, and nature. Sometimes you will find me reading a book at starbucks. Sometimes I'm at the garden, aquarium, by some body of water (ocean or lake). I love walking in the rain--with an umbrella of course, driving around to explore new places--getting lost is fun, and relaxing parks or beach with sunsets, blue sky, gentle breeze. - 3 months ago
I am my own religion, thank you. I know many decent or good girls go to church, which I like. But what I avoid like the plague is how much they demand their man to be religious like them. I don't enjoy being tugged on like that - 3 months ago
yeah, You did just name the three places they are most likely to be. but if you are looking for a girl who is active. Then they are probably out and about doing things they like. Great girls are everywhere. We all do different things of interest.
That's just tooo ambitious/driven for me. I prefer a girl who is well balanced between work and play. All work and no play = workaholic which = not a very feminine characteristic for me = turn off. So there has got to be some play, where do they go and what do they do? - 3 months ago
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Well, I go to school and work all the time just because people in the town I live in either don't respect themselves/and others.... and have no goals and ambition so until I move back to San Diego that's my plan and probably how other girls are around here too. I'm sure they're out doing the same thing you're doing if they're decent girls. You just gotta scope a girl out at that place you think looks like she fits you and go up and talk to her. Don't give up if the first one doesn't work out! - 3 months ago
yep I agree with Banker - good girls are sitting at home and chatting away with their friends or at work 24/7 or maybe not hey I ask myself where are all good men who are almost great at everything that they try to do!
You girls need to go out more!! there are some great guys out there. You can't just dismiss a guy based on first impression. I think maybe that's why men and women have such a hard time matching up with one another - 3 months ago
I have the same question in mind. where are the good men? For the good ladies. they are just at work and at home. Sometimes, they are at coffee shops, restaurants chatting with their girlfriends and talking about where and how to find good men.
Great men often go out by themselves. We enjoy exploration, outdoor, and nature. Sometimes you will find us reading a book at starbucks. Other times we will go to museums, gardens, observatory, and in your grocery stores--especially in the healthy food aisle. If what you say about good women is true, which is them staying home a lot, then we on earth do you women expect to meet us good men?? Life is very lonely as it is. We don't need to make it any more worse - 3 months ago
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Gosh!!! why don't we try speed dating... =( will this make us look desperate? - 3 months ago
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No way! Life is too short for us to worry about looking desperate. It's very hard to find someone who is compatible and has good qualities that we look for. I don't mind dating the other person as long as I know a few things about that person first. - 3 months ago
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Where?! tell me where exactly they are and the best time to find them... hehehehe - 3 months ago
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What do you mean where? The places to meet men or how to speed date? You can easily find a ton of men online, try looking at this thread http://www.girlsaskguys.com/Dating-Questions/20629-what-is-the-best-dating-site.html
- 3 months ago
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This is getting funny...now you're doing the answering... thanks =) - 3 months ago
Women are everywhere. You just have to approach them and find out if they're what you want. Holding back and waiting for the perfect woman to walk into your cross-hairs isn't any way to meet someone.
And there is no such thing as a "good girl". Women are women. That hottie you met at the gym, library, office, church, etc could just as easily be the same woman you met at the club 8 hours later. All that changed is the circumstances of where you met. She's still going to be the same person regardless, although environment can certainly affect human behavior. Think about it.
You just named the top three places to meet a "good" girl, they aren't all at work or at home. They are EVERYWHERE. You just have to look, and be prepared to act when you see one.
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