"reality check - would you date me?"

well the ratings come from other users, so I don't know, you tell ME
do YOU rate on looks alone?

The actual dates are probably cheesy and/or phony
Many profiles just describe themselves in general
Therefore, I take them with a grain of salt

I rate about 2/3 looks, 1/3 date description, since as I said above they may be fibbing or trying to impress you

I usually try to avoid rating underage users though; the first few times kids came up (under 18), I just gave them 1's
then I found the thing to only show 18+

I would rate on both. I mean, they can be lying about what they would do on a date and say cheesy things, but my first dates have been wonderfully dreamy. Just after the first 4 meetings and on that things start to go downhill and I get a "reality check." So hey, all up to the person rating, really.

I kinda find what they say they would do on the date kinda cheesey, no date would be that perfect. On my would you date me I just put down what happened on my last date.

people could be lying about what they would do on a date; so I always rate on the looks only.