I've always kind of had a thing for bad boys, but now I'm starting to really fall for this guy that I have been told by several people is not just a bad boy but a sleaze. And the thing that is bothering me is that even when I hear what a sleaze he is, it doesn't repulse me. I just like hearing people talk about him. He makes me smile and gives me butterflies, but if he really is as bad as people are saying I want to find a way to stop falling for him. But if he's not as bad as they say I don't want to lose him in my life.
What can I say bad boys are hot and your going to learn the hard way. Girls are attracted to bad boys because they are mysterious, an asshole who will throw down into a fight just the f*** of it. Girls think they can fix them and they usually don't succeed, I should know because I fell for an asshole and I'm still head over heels for him even though he's hurt me emotionally and physically (the sex was great) and even though he didn't want to have a relationship with me I love him more then ever because I can't fix him. Just go for it, It might be fun and don't let your guard down you already know he's not a nice guy so it's your job to always be on top of things, don't let him hurt you but rather you should be the one that hurts him. Your not repulsed by him because you want him, your attracted to him. Friends might say he's a sleaze but your a big girl who can handle your own problems
This is a great example of how attraction doesn't sync with logic. Your emotions kicked in and are overriding the logical side of your brain because when you're with him he makes you feel good (perhaps physically, but definitely emotionally). If he acted the same way around a friend of yours, would you still feel the same way? Think back to the last time you had a friend date a guy similar to him, how did you feel about that guy? How did he ultimately treat your friend? Those are the things you need to watch out for.
He isn't repulsing you because your attracted to him, it's just like when a girl sees a guy and she goes he's attractive and her friend goes oh no not him he's a player , does that make you go oh never mind, nope it makes you go hmmmm really, so then he either goes up to you or you go to him and wow he's charming and flirty, so you say hey dude your a player aren't you and he maybe smirks a little or doesn't give you a strait answer, continues to flirt with you, touches you gets in your space and does this make you repulsed hell no, you like it and then before you know it your making out with the guy and in your mind your going what the hell am I doing this can't be good, but there's just something about him.
yeah your pretty crazy if you have a thing for bad boys that just tells us right there you love spending money on a guy and doesn't have you give him anything in return, paying his gas, cleaning up after him, letting him cuss you out, yep. well anyways to the advice find out from yourself don't bother asking him cause he will just deny. investigate in a creative way. yupperz. then if it all doesn't work out MOVE ON!
I've actually only done the spending money thing on one guy and I got over that quickly. And when they get verbally abusive I'm gone. The cleaning up thing does happen, but more so the bad boy thing is about motorcycles, fighting, drinking, and sex. - 5 months ago