So, tonight, We were suppose to meet and I was suppose to spend the night there. We haven't seen each other in 2 weeks, We miss each other a lot. We live 45 mins away from each other in train. The plan was, that I call him when I am at the train station for him to pick me up. But I got stuck at work and he left me a message saying he was gonna go play basketball with his friends and to call him when I would be ready. I got off work late and was tired, so, I wrote to him that. It was no biggie, that I would go tomorrow and to spend the night with his friends. I wasn't mad or anything. When he got home, he wrote to me "I can't believe this! We've been planning this for a while! You've been telling me all week you miss me but when it's time to come here, you tell me to hang with my friends! Don't come tomorrow" and he was mad, and still don't wanna see me. Did I do something wrong? I'm not just the kinda girl that will put a choker on my boyfriend neck is all. What can I do to solve things? Thanks
Its not the freedom sweetheart, its just that he also misses you. To tell you the truth I would rather stay up till 2 in the morning if it is to spend it with my girl than to hang out with my friends. He is obviously just pissed cause he wants more commitment and more time with you, not that he has to much freedom.
HaggardDiva is right. He's upset because he misses you, and was really looking forward to seeing you. Just text/email him saying you really miss him too but that you were just really tired from work. See if you can suprise him by showing up at his place, or ask if you two can set another date to spend together. Its a good sign that he's upset, because it just means, he misses you lots lots. If he didn't really care about spending time with you, he wouldv been, kewl kewl.
It wasn't about freedom. He just wanted to spend time with you. Guys can actually be really sensitive, and really it was a sign that he really does miss you and wants to spend time with you. Tell him how much you miss him and are sorry that you couldn't make it. Explain to him that it wasn't at all that you didn't want to see him, you just couldn't hardly stay awake.
I think the fact that you were so casual that it makes him feel like he is no big deal and you don't care anyway.
Guys are big babies! You have to remember that. He feels like even if you were tired, if you really wanted to see him, you would have come anyway because that is what HE would have done. And since you have been planning it for a while, he feels like unless you just dropped dead, there's no reason to keep your plans.
So, it's not about the go out with friends thing. It's that he feels slighted because he thinks you really didn't want to come and see him.
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