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ok, I lost my V-card at 15. and I don't think I "dated" a girl until I was at least 17. so what are we really getting at here.
are we trying to prevent something? all dating is is a label. you are more likely to get your kid to do the right thing by instilling values and the tools to make the right decisions then saying "no you can't date anyone"
teenagers are people too and have the same natural urges adults have. and by putting up a label on something like "dating"(lets face it, the word we are looking for here is SEX) you are going to get one of 2 reactions, either they will completely rebel or they will do what I did. go find a girl, hook up, and when I get home say "no mom of course I'm not dating anyone"
well I wasn't "dating" now was I
moral of story: raise your kids right and whatever happens, at what ever are happens, things will turn out ok
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