Like with me, the way I am is just that I hate when guys call or IM me too much, it gets on my nerves and makes me not so interested. I also do tend to flirt with other guys, I wouldn't cheat, but I'd flirt. I don't care if the guy flirts with other girls -- just not cheat. And I'm not really the type to get jealous or any of that. Guys, would that turn you off or would you still be interested?
I'd think that you're ok. You sound good to me. I don't blame you for not wanting 24/7 attention from your guy because even that can get tiring and over protective. But it somewhat depends on what stage of your relationship you're in. Like is your guy just a really good friend. Is he a FWB? Is he your boyfriend? If I was your boyfriend I wouldn't care if you dressed hot and flirted some, just not overly or too often. The main thing is that you wouldn't cheat! To not let you have at least a "little" fun would be like overly possessive, and I don't think most girls especially hot girls would go for that very long. I've heard plenty from girls about guys that were overly possessive and that really bugs the heck out of them. They are probably the insecure guys that are worried that their girlfriends will find someone better and be dumped. That won't bother a guy that's secure with himself and his g/f. If a guy is taking good care of his girlfriend and loving her like he should, caring for her and pleasuring her however she likes to be pleasured sexually if she does, I don't think he'd have to worry about her flirting sometimes and just being the cute and hot girl she is. No sense being jealous when she's herself. So it would NOT be a turn-off and I WOULD still be interested. One last thing. Some girls freak out if their b/f's aren't available 24/7 and responding to their phone calls or texts. lol!
Haha, yeah I know a lot of people who are like that and it annoys the crap out of me. I would hate it if a guy called me every few hours even if we were dating for like a year. I need space and I don't like hanging out with the same people every day. If a guy calls me too much I don't bother to answer the phone. lol - 5 months ago
Lets just say that If I were looking for a steady relationship, you wouldn't be my first choice. If I were looking for a quick fling, you would be. Relationships are based on trust and communication. While you say you wouldn't cheat, flirting with many guys will test the jealousy of your significant other. I wouldn't like it, but if you found some guy that didn't care that you flirted with guys other than him, you will begin to wonder if he cares about you. But maybe that's just my thinking.
Haha thanks... I guess the thing is just that I have a lot of friends that treat every1 like crap when they are dating some1. I wouldn't want to do that, and I wouldn't flirt bad, like talking dirty and foreplay and things like that.i guess you could say I'm just outgoing and I don't mean that ill flirt flirt but ill just be friendly, and sometimes I honestly can't help it I just do, it doesn't mean I'm interested - 5 months ago
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