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awkawk (Age:Under 18) When: 5 months ago

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so I'm asking this question on behalf of my friend.
she recently met this older guy a month ago and in her opinion things are getting kind of intense but without any actual commitment. they haven't gone out on a real date yet or anything and every time they get together his friends are with him. she really likes him and wants to date him, but he hasn't initiated anything. their flirting has gotten more and more sexual and even though they've only kissed and made out so far she's starting to consider going further even though he's made it clear he doesn't want any sort of relationship with her. he invited her to spend the night for a sleepover and she went but nothing happened between them.
i just don't understand- why bother with all of this taking it slow business if he doesn't want anything serious out of it? is he just hoping to get something out of it or is he just keeping her around to have her around? my boyfriend thinks he just wants ass, but if he did why wouldn't he try when she's right there in front of him?


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Da-One-n-Only- (Age:18 to 24) When: 5 months ago

Ur boyfriend is right he already made it clear to her that he doesn't want anything serious so yeah he's just gonna use her.Not sure why he didn't do anything while she was there but if she doesn't back away its gonna hurt her in the long run.

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