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How do you ask a girl out?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 5 months ago
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ive not really had a real girlfriend. I really like this girl and I can really tell that she likes me back. I want to ask her out but I really don't know how to go about it. I seriously need some help on what to say or what to do to ask her out to be my girlfriend. PLEASE HELP ME!

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userbrit3027 (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
Ok all you have to do is ask her to the movies. The movies is a great place for a first date
notice I said FIRST. Don't listen to all those boy piggs giving you advice I'm a girl I would know. >.>


but be all calm and say some thing like:
"hey you wanna go catch a movie this Friday?" O.o
"hey I'm gonna go to the movies this Friday wanna come?" >.<
"umm I saw a preview for this movie I think is cool. & I think you might like it. Would you wanna go with me?" ^_^

but don't try to suck face with her "makeout"
girls hate that unless they are to easy if you know what I mean.?
there you have it ever guy that has asked me out with those three lines have gone out with me and made me their girlfriend. ^. -


good Luck! ^O^

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vmw2008
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vmw2008 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
It really all depends on the time you guys share together that would make it special. Even if you two are just watching a movie together it would be cute to say that you really like her a lot and you would love her to be your girlfriend. It doesn't have to be over the top or too sappy. Just enough to let her know she means a lot to you.
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sheena
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sheena (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
You can write this girl a love letter, or talk to her in person. In the letter you can tell her how you feel about her and ask her to be your girlfriend. She can either say yes or no. You only live once, so take a chance. She could be feeling the same way you are feeling,maybe she has been waiting on you to tell her how you really feel.Sometimes I wished I would have told someone how much they meant to me, but I was to afraid. So, try to send her a letter, or ask her for her phone number and tell her over the phone.Which ever one you think will make you more comfortable expressing your feelings.
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taboo-angel
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taboo-angel (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
aww, how cute.
dont worry. ur not alone.
do something romantic that will really impress her. for example, buy chocolates - every girl's weak point. and THEN once you give it to her, tell her you would love to be her boyfriend and ask her if she'd like to go out with you.
its that simple!
good luck =]
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girls101 (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
you can call her to go with you to eat something and then ask her to be your girlfriend and tell her came you guy can still be friends.
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haileybrooke (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
well you could call her and talk to her, and ask her how she feels about you! then tell her how you feel about her, and tell her that you really like her alot! and would love to be with her! and at the same time tell her that you will always be her bestfriend! no matter what
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desperado (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
You want her as your girlfriend, come on that's to easy. You gotta at least ask her on a date, maybe a movie, then while it's dark and you two are watching a movie, whisper in her ear (very romantic) tell her you want her as your girl.
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tazzy (Age:30 to 35)      When: 5 months ago
Wow, all the girls are asking you to romance this girl!

From experience, that will work only if the girl already likes you 100% and the only way to find out is if you are already dating her, which is a chicken and egg situation.

What you do is not to ask her out, find a situation where you two can end up together. say a club she likes to hang out on, start hanging out there too. Get to know the place and get to know it well. You will be nervous the first time that you talk to her *but* you will be less nervous if you are in a place that you are familiar with.

You are under 18, so that might not be possible, [the Mall maybe?], but the point is you make the move in a place which is familiar to you.

And at this point, you chat her up whenever you have a chance, make sure that you get all those indicators of interests from her, see if you can hold her intersted for a bit, escalate it to slight touching, see if when you tease her something like. "Oh you know my cat really likes to be touched at the back of her neck? Like this. " and you proceed to touch her back of her neck. See if she is comfortable with that. See if she is comfortable with you edging in on her.

You don't have to do all this in one go, but more than a couple of times you meet her, and ultimately you escalate it to a point where a) You whispher to her that you like her and you'd want to go out, b) The situation just asks for a kiss and you go for it.

See those movies where the relationship starts with a kiss? Not because of of some guy writing love letters and sending chocolates and whatnot. Those stuff you do them after you are with her!

So in short, work your way up to a comfort zone with her where you can kiss her. It could take a few times of meeting her up casually, or it could take months.
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desperado You made me crack up with that romance start up line, hey but you got a point. Take it from a man right? - 5 months ago
Answerer It is not as much as "Take it from a man". More like I was reading the previous posts from the ladies, and it is cure, but it risks him getting his heart broken should the girl not reciprocate or feel the same way about him. It avoids him getting stuck from the LJBF syndrome. He can romance her and write poems and letters as much as he wants *after* they are officially together. - 5 months ago
 
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