we met 3 months ago and everything was fine until last week. we planned on meeting to talk about a future together, spend the night together at his house, (no sex) just watch movies and cuddle. but he has very low self esteem and kept pushing me away because he's scared of getting hurt. and every time things started to get serious he would push me away, telling me not to talk to him ever again, I would receive an email from him 2-3 hours later, with him saying the same thing. I would reply and we would get in a fight. its like he's picking these fights with me. so last night I told him clear and simple that my feelings for him won't change even if he act like that. he even said how he doesn't like himself and that I would be better without him. which is a lie. since then he's been acting that way. tell me to leave him alone forever when we were so close to get something. I wanna make him understand that I love him, I'm serious and he has nothing to worry about but in his head and heart, he doesn't get it and he's scared.
Should I leave him alone even tho he always come back to me or keep going until he gets it?
How can I make him change his mind about that? I really need help here because he's down, I'm down, we fight for that when we could be together. need lots of replies please. thanks
well that's a hard one I think you should not push the relationship thing at him tell he's ready maybe give him a break and just be friends for a while tell you build the trust with him. But it probably is hard to have feelings for some one that has such a low self confidence. Maybe if you reinsure him that he is what your looking for and he is perfect for you and you don't want to leave him alone because you do love him and want to be with him maybe tings will work out but I would get more advice on this one! Best of luck hope I helped in some way!
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 5 months ago
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