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Have you ever dated someone with the intent to make someone else jealous?

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: 5 months ago
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Have you ever dated someone with the intent to make someone else jealous?

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Caramel (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
No because that would be prostitution , to have clother you sleep with people translation to have someone you give yourself to someone else ? see the similarities?
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TheoryOfAvarice
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TheoryOfAvarice (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Eh, sort of, when I was like 13 or 14. But the dating wasn't really for the sole reason to get the other guy jealous; it was just kind of a perk, I guess.
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awholenewsetofrules
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awholenewsetofrules (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
I have never dated someone to make someone else jealous but kinda close. I went on one date with a guy because I knew it would make my ex CRAZY if he found out. I don't know if he ever did, probably not.

Situation went like this: I had this friend from high school. It was over a year since graduation and he had moved 4 hours away for college so we hadn't seen each other much since graduation. But we kept in touch by email and flirted, etc. I went up for a visit to see him and we ended up hooking up the first night. I was staying with him for like a week so we spent that whole week together and decided to continue LD after that. After a few months only seeing each other once a month, he started bugging me to move up near him. I had no way of living on my own in the city though and didn't know anybody to room with so he suggested I move in with him and his roommates. I knew it would kill our relationship but I REALLY wanted out of the town I was in anyway so I took the chance. I mean the distance was gonna kill things too so it was worth a shot. Needless to say, the whole thing lasted about a month. I'm not surprised that things fell apart after I moved in but he was a total jerk about how he handled it. So I went on a date with his roommate, lol. It wasn't specifically to make my ex jealous though. For one thing I would have made sure he found out if that were the case. And actually I did kinda like the guy. The last couple weeks before my ex and I split, he was always really nice to me. I actually saw him and talked to him more than my ex. We would have these conversations that lasted for hours. So when he asked me out I was interested in him. But after that first date I realized that while I did like him, I liked the idea that my ex would go NUTS if he found out a little more. He didn't care I was moving on and dating other guys but with his roommate I know he would have wondered if we'd started up before we broke up and that would have made him crazy.
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hhh44 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
I've considered it, to make another guy jealous. But I realized in the end it would just not turn out well at all. But I have definitely flirted with other guys to make a guy jealous. It works every time if the guy is actually interested in you.
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irish-girl-08 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
when I was 13 I did I went out with a guy I didn't even like to make a girl I was at war with jealous funny thing is we are best friends now ! and I can't beleive I done that lol how sad and immature thank god I grew up
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Heartsdesire2be1
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Heartsdesire2be1 (Age:36 to 45)      When: 5 months ago
I did that once when I was all of 15 years old. It didn't work in fact it made the other person and I grow further apart. Think about it would it work on you?
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tazzy (Age:30 to 35)      When: 5 months ago
Dated someone else to get them jealous? That;s just plain cruel to the person involved and also non constructive. How do I get the girl I want if I am dating someone else. So answer is NO from this guy.

Flirted with, YES, it's the perfect weapon, In a club, I will flirt and talk with every girl that will entertain me. It increases your value to the girl that is your target. If she sees you with some other girls, you become more important to her. She sees that another girl finds you attractive hence you must be worth something.

But dating someone to make someone else jealous is just plain cruel.
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FranFig21 On the flip side of flirting with other girls to make yourself more valuable, the girl may see that you are a ladies man, thus be turned off by that fact cause she may think that If she gets into a relationship with you that there is a good chance you will cheat on her. - 5 months ago
FranFig21 Well on the flip side of dating a girl to make another girl jealous is that If the girl sees that you attract many women that it may scare her off because If she gets into a relationship with you, it may mean that chances are she will think you are going to cheat on her. - 5 months ago
Question Asker I agree with both of your answers... I think that there are different types of women. Some women are happy with the man they have and need nothing more. Other women need to know that their man is desirable to other women. In a sense it's a bit selfish, because if he's not desirable to other women then she is basically saying, "well why do I want him?" - 5 months ago
Answerer Yeah it's a double edged sword. But it's enough to let her get you in through the door. Also enough to keep her on her toes in your first few dates until you actually get into a relationship. Girls don't play easy, but they also don't like the easy guys. The easy guys are the one's that fall into the Let's Just Be Friends category. - 5 months ago
 
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