Why do you guys go for the easy/"slutty" girls? Why don't you go for the girls that want to go somewhere in life, and know what they want? And don't give away something that should only be saved for the "one and only?" I just don't get it, please I want honest answers!
Most guys don't believe sex should be reserved for the one and only, I would actually be really offended if you told me to expect to only lay a single girl in my life for some unjustified moral reason. Thanks to contraception, having sex is not really a moral issue anymore. Adultery is a moral issue. Having sex is something people do for fun when they like each other, because it feels good.
You're under 18, so what you probably meant was why do guys in high school go after girls who don't care about their virginity, if they have it at all. If that's what you meant, then this kind of ties into my first paragraph. Guys like sex, guy wants sex, where would he go to look for sex, probably from the girls who are already having sex or at least the girls trying to look like it. There's no ethics involved with a high school guy, they aren't trying to find the romance of their lives between french class and gym. They probably wouldn't mind finding someone they love, but chances are they're trying much harder to either get their name off the virgin list or just get laid and get more experience with girls.
If you're looking for romance and a real relationship, look for the romantic guys. Not the players who'll say they love you, the guys who don't have a reputation. They're out there, somewhere, even in high school.
Well sweetie, guys are not the most smartest things in the world. They think with the wrong brain & they want only one thing from a girl there are very few out there that are respectful & I didn't even know there were any till I met my now boyfriend =] & I'm sure you will find a guy that won't make you or try to talk you into sex don't settle for less than you deserve.
michelle
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Well because men only have one thing on their mind, is getting the girl to come home with them. But even though some men are all about instant gratification in the moment, the women who will hold their interest are the ones who leave them wanting more. Those girls who hook up with them that same night can't expect the guy to ask them out on a second date because of it. God knows how many times she's done it, and with how many. So you hold back and you will become an object of his desire, then you pass the lust part and they want to get to know you better, and settle.
If a girl is really nice total girlfriend material the guy likes the girl.the girl and guy hangout for the first time and there is touching and both...
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I would do a lot of things. Start out with an early dinner at a good pub. Then head out to see a good movie, afterwards heading to the clubs. Basically the goal is to get to know her in a variety of settings to find out what she's like.
Jeans and a sportjacket.
The date ends with us heading to her place or mine.