Why do women seem like they are into guys but then dissapear?

Maybe she is taken some girls do things like that they talk to a guy but have no intention on going out with them FORGET GIRLS LIKE THIS trust me you can do MUCH better. Or maybe your conversation didn't real spark her maybe she thinks of you as more of a friend and is just not really interested in you. The main thing to remember is not to be the same way with every girl try to be a little more interesting use your body and eyes to connect with her and remember there are so many chicks in the world that are single you just have to go for the right ones.

What seems inconsistent is how you're so friendly + open and then wait to call like you're playing hard to get. What's also missing is how you act, what vibes you give off. Are you a "nice guy"?

Also, pay attention to get smile. If it's a tight-lipped smile, it's usually fake (although I'm an exception, I usually smirk secretly, that's my natural smile). But if you make her laugh. that confuses me. Unless that's fake too, which seems unlikely since she hangs onto the conversation. Something is putting them off.

Maybe you're just hitting up the wrong sort of women. Are you one of those picky "I only hit on 5"3" blonde ice queens?". Try other places besides bars, bars are trashy. Why not bookstores, art festivals, etc? We love that stuff. Guys seem classier.

dear god I have the exact same problem! Ill be able to do all the same stuff you can do, but then everything will just collapse around me and ill never hear from her again. I think its just a way for some girls to show their not interested, cause it almost always happens after I flirt with them a bit.

I think it all depends on where you meet the girl, girls you meet at bars more than likely if they're hot have collected many numbers and also given out their number to guys, so unless you take them home with you that night, chances are you call they don't answer. So the key to that would be you have to give a damn good impression to her from the start otherwise they will prob forget who you are, especially if they're drunk or your drunk at the time of meeting them. So maybe that's not the case with you, say you meet a girl at the store or something, you say you wait a few days later how many is a few days later a week or more? If its longer than I would say at least two days , once again she might forget who you are and then when you call she might remember she might not.

When I meet a girl and I am interested in, then what I do is I say hey are you busy this friday night and if she says no then I say good cause we are going to dinner, so let me get your number and I will call you Thursday to set up a time to pick you up on Friday to go to dinner. When you say sometime to a women that could mean anytime, if you don't specify they might think oh well guess he's not that interested and then when you come around to calling her sometime she won't answer.