Okay, so I have been hurt by guys (just rejection, not dumped or anything) and I was sick of it. It got to the point a while a go where I refused to like anyone. I sort of stopped caring about love or romance and half of me still does and refuses to like any guy in that sense. Anyways, I had started summer school and was kind of happy to realize that there weren't any guys that I could have a possible crush on. There was one guy, he's cute and sits in front of me in my class. (which is not a big deal). The problem is, is that we hung out, just us and he was pretty out going, very friendly and just his overall personality made him more attractive. I don't want to start liking this guy mainly cause of my fear of rejection (not going to say anything soon mind you, it's just in general). I just need some advice on how to not like a guy or like him more than a friend right now before I start to have a full on crush on him.
You see this guy in class, he's gonna be there for a little bit. Get to know him, and judge him for who he is, and not what your past is like. Then decide if he's a good individual.
The past is there to haunt, not hurt. Which a little fear is a good thing, but none at all or too much is usually bad.
reach for the stars my dear even if in the end you fall on your face maybe just maybe you'll see what it really means to live.just let go of all that holds you back rejection is scary but if you never try you never know this will eat at you unless you do something about it.
I mean don't act on impulses and don't be compulsive,in order to satisfy urself you don't wanna make troubles ,or if ur not ready for a relationship then well it might not turn out a smash hit. - 5 months ago
You know you've been hurt in the past by guys. Perhaps it was not the right time and the right place.Now you facing a guy that you like again but afraid of being rejected.The step is not that hard to win friend's heart, to make them like to be around you, but not too soon to be crush on. As you unconsciously aware of it, this is the wonderful and beautiful step to a new level of relationship.
Girl, I want to to ask you some question if you don't mind.Why you get so much rejection by guys in the past?Is it any of them, I mean physically, internal and external doesn't fit them. I mean not attract them, or anything?
Whatever, I don't really mind what is going in guys brain about physical attraction, looks, personality.But one thing that I convince as girl yearn this traits from a guy, so does them too.
I am not telling you to make face or physical surgery right now in order to attract the opposite sex.
You just have to be your self, maybe you could change the way you look, the suitable personality that you comfort with, make some changes in your attitude.Give some nice scent to your self.Become a feminine, not girly girly, just become yourself as a genuine girl,smart, fun, nice smile, intelligent communication and great personality. I assure you, guarantee, hundred percent that guy like this kind of girl.
If you make some effort on this, it will make a difference on how he looks at you and treating you differently. Good luck.
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