What catches my eyes is a guys smile, his eyes, and how tall he is. Also, just over all looks. Still, that has never been too important to me. I judge by how friendly they seem most of all.
I've been asked out a couple of times and my favorite is where they seem nervous. It makes it seem more like my answer truly matters to them. (No, it doesn't make me think a guy is weak or unconfident, just that they care)
when it comes to asking me out, I want it straight to the point. more like "would you like to go out on a date with me?" not just "um so you wanna hang out sometime or somethin?" if a guy shows clear interest in me. then so will I :)
i like guys who carry themselves well---guys that are confident, charming, and actually take the time to maintain their appearance (little things like doing their hair or putting on cologne).i love a man who can make me laugh--instant attraction.guys who are comfortable with themselves are good.looks wise I'm not that particular.i really like a guy with nice hands and strong arms---he doesn't have to be hot or anything, a good personality can supersede good looks.
i like it best when guys are really casual and are just like "hey.what are you doing friday night? wanna grab dinner and see a movie or something?".its really nonchalant and makes me feel comfortable with him.
Arms and hair. I love a guy with strong arms. Not body builder arms but arms that are defined I also love a guy with a good head of hair. Again not necessarily long or anything but well groomed dark hair
I'd like a gentleman, looks do not really matter unless he is too ugly and under maintained of course. Must be approachable, composed, respectful, any head weight and arrogance is an instant turn off, it will be gr8 if he can take the initiative to start a light conv, not involving personal questions, something as impersonal as weather, workplace ethics, fav hangout places, recent movies watched, etc. and first show subtle hints that he'd like to explore the girl, if the girl responds to his hints, he can then make the next move and then ask her out.
The VERY first thing I see obviously is looks, this is I I don't know the person. But if I get to know a person and they are funny, that is a big bonus for me. And I I like him enough, I don't care how he asks me out as long as he does it :).
Admittedly the first thing that catches my eye is sometimes looks but it also catches my attention when I see a guy do something funny or especially sweet or if I see a guy stand up for a girl or acting like a gentleman. If I see a guy do something like that it sorta sticks in my mind (even if they're not great looking) and the next time I have an opportunity to talk to them I might go up, or I wouldn't brush them off if they came up/on to me. One time I saw a guy who would always hold the classroom door and let girls go before him, and even though he was only okay looking I talked to him after class and got to know he was a really great guy.
I like when they talk to me first, find out what we have in common, then ask me out to something we'd both like. And I don't like it if they're all cocky -- if they are, it usually equals a no. If they are get shy or mess up while trying to hit on me, it's kinda cute and I go easier on them.
I like it when guys aren't afraid of what to say. They are not shy and are up for anything. I like it when a guy asks me out in front of my friends. It shows me that they have courage of not to be scared to talk to me in front of my friends.
the Eyes I personally like a blue or green eyed man but he's got 2 be courteous, sweet, respectful, gentleman like, gentle yet strong, not stuck up in front of his friends, someone that has an amazing personality, and his personality has to be charming not shallow! And he's got 2 at least be nice looking, but if he's hott then that's fine 2.
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