I have a lot of guys I hang out and talk to they always say I'm so nice and funny and I get them. I think its because I grew up with my dad my whole life, but every time I started liking one of them they always have girlfriends or like someone else I really don't get this.
well I don't really have an answer for you but I know how it goes. I'm the same way with women. I get o know them and then try for a relationship and always end up in the friend zone because they only see me as a friend not as dating material. but I do agree that if you show off your hot side and let them know your interested things might change.
Maybe you should show off your girly side.for instance spice up your style.make them remember that you are not just someone who can also hangout with the guys.SHOW YOUR HOT SIDE