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Everyone likes attention, and flirting is of course sexy and attractive and makes you feel wanted, and if you are with someone it is a connection to the single world, or a confidence booster knowing that you "still have it". And perhaps there is a real desire to be with you on his side of things, or maybe he is a player.
Regardless, if you are going to "tell him how you feel" you have the wrong mindset. If you tell him "how you feel" he is going to run, because he already has one girlfriend, he may think you would be a better one, and may want to truly be with you, but he would have taken the necessary steps to do something about it if he really wanted it.
Pass it off as casual, guys like casual. Try saying something like, "too bad you have that girlfriend" if he says they aren't really that close, or they are in a fight or anything of the like he is a player, if he says that he really loves her, he's not interested, but if he says anything that would suggest if they weren't together that you two would have a future, then keep flirting and making sure he knows that you aren't sitting around waiting for him, but if he was single, you guys could get together.
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