If you'd missed your chance with a girl you REALLY liked, and a few months later she seemed to becoming back around for a second try (started showing interest again etc) would you go for it or would you try to move on?
Hmmm well if I REALLY liked a girl and for some reason I missed my chance the first time (you didn't way why though) and then a few months later she seems to becoming back for a second try, If I STILL REALLY liked her I'd definitely give her another chance!. It sounds like you left the guy, but my not knowing how the break up occurred, I'd still give her another chance unless a lot of shit happened in between that she did to make me look bad. We all deserve second chances to prove ourselves as long as we've not trashed that person while we've been apart I can assume she learned her lesson and now she likes me even more and 's ready to have a more mature relationship. I''d open the door and welcome her back in and try to make up for lost time and try not to repeat any mistakes I might have made. I'd not move on after given a second chance at a girl I REALLY liked!
Thank you. I just moved on because he was a little too shy and wasn't making anything happen between us. But I still like him and I still really wanna be with him. I think he has shyness issues with someone he really likes. I just hope he's still interested and this time will be a little more forthcoming. - 3 months ago
It'd depend on the circumstances. If it's a rebound situation, I'd probably skip it, because it's not the same and in my experience, girls coming out of a bad break up want to trash talk the guy, and I might sound rude here, but I could really care less about him and how he owes you $1,000 but you still miss his scent.
If I played it too casual with her, and she took off, but came back around a few weeks later, I guess I'd try.
As I'm sitting here thinking out different scenarios where this could/would happen, I can't help but get suspicious about her coming back around. I mean, if I boneheaded previously, what makes things different a few weeks/months later?
Yes I would go for it and I would realize how dumb I was for screwing my first chance up. I would try to stop being so shy.You only get so many chances with those things
depending on how she treated you the first time should you try to start things back up with her. If she was mature about it and said "No, right now's not the time for us" then you should definitely think about a future with you two. If she treated you like dirt like stopped talking altogether, and pushed you out of her life then just be like hell no. But first and foremost ask her right now what she wants. Don't over think things and get worried about what she wants, just ask.
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